Okay so my friend is getting married, IN A MONTH! Literally trying to get everything together in a month b/c her fiance in leaving for Iraq and it was kinda a last minute plan.....so what i need from you ladies is what do you think are the things that she MUST have for the wedding other than the basics like dress, flowers, invites and the palce, etc? We want to surprise her with a bridal shower since she thinks she wont be able to do anything that she would normally get to do and we are trying to help her do as much as possible so she wont feel like she missed out on anything ya know? So any ideas please help! thanks in advance!