Help with hair accessories
So when I was originally thinking of my accessories I wanted to find a headband or really simple tiara (that didn't look like a tiara). I couldn't find anything I liked because you either couldn't see the headband or it looked too princessy. So I decided to do a flower. Well then I stumbled upon a cheap (but not cheap looking) tiara that was exactly what I was looking for - simple, sparkly, no pearls, and not too princessy. But now I'm wondering if it's too much with my earrings, necklace, plus with the veil and then I still like the flower....oi! What makes it hard too is I don't have my flower yet (it's in the mail) and my mom is still working on my veil.
so now here's more advice I'm looking for....if I keep the tiara should I also have the flower in my hair at the same time with the veil?? That seems like a lot to me but may not look that way. The veil is coming off after pictures and my hair is going from being down and curly to a low up-do. So I could just wear the tiara and veil for the ceremony and then take those off and put the flower in, or take the veil off and add the flower or just have them all in to begin with and just take the veil off. so many choices!! Please help.
This is my inspiration pic for the flower. (but my veil won't be secured low like that)
my veil will be a cathedral drop veil like: this pic shows what it will look back, and my idea is that the tiara and veil would look how Kate Middleton's did
Ok ladies.....tell me your thoughts please!