This is sort of a vent...sort of a question...sort of I dunno!
I really want to get a videographer. It's not about the money. I have somebody almost booked who is a friend's friend trying to expand his photography business. FI just "doesn't want one." His first concern is that he doesn't want a camera in his face all day. Ok, photogs and videogs are trained to stay out of the way and still get the shot. Then FI says he will be acting like an idiot, and doesn't want it on film. Um, what??!?! lol.
So my argument back to him was that I really want somebody to film the wedding. So either we pay somebody to shoot and then EDIT the "idiot" parts out, or I have a family member just shoot film of whatever and we get what we get-even the parts that we would have edited out.
UGh, we never really finished discussing it, so I dunno. This is something I really want and he obviously knows it. But I don't want to book it without having FIs approval...it's almost like we're at a stalemate. I can probably talk him into it but I'm surprised at how much he says he doesn't want one! WTH!? WHat should I do? lol