Honor and Obey
I posted this in another group and wanted to know your thoughts. Did you say honor and obey in your vows the first time? Do you plan on saying it the second time?
To answer my own question, because YALL know I don't always do(LOL), we are writing our own vows this time around. Not sure if the honor and obey will be in the new ones, but I did say it with no shame the first time.