... did it take before the "post-wedding" bliss went away?
Once we got home from our hm we had some issues with his mom(it finally got to the point where his mom and I were literally screaming at eachother before he stepped in) and our best friends that caused some arguments(they got married 6 weeks after meeting and his former bff is a serious psychopath). It's been an ongoing battle with one side of his family since we got married(I had good relationship with them until we got married) I think they can't stand the fact that another female is now a priority for him. This has definitely caused some arguments as it's his biological side that's causing issues and he's trying very hard to keep them around and I just want him to stick up for me. The final straw was Thursday night when his grandmother randomly tore me a new one and called me a liar and mean spirited among other things and accused me of things that were untrue...all of this completely unprovoked by me. At this point he's finally realized that I'm really not doing anything to make them hate me all I want is some respect and I'm not willing to let them walk all over me for their own gain. We're very happy to be married but his family has caused quite a few tears and arguments that's for sure. As he says though if they want to be like that it's they're problem not ours(that just took him 7 months to figure out) and he finally stuck up for me with his grandmother.
p.s. his mom abandoned him when he was 7 years old and will randomly pop up and cause drama then go away. She used to succeed in hurting him but now that I'm in the picture I will step in between them before I let her jerk him around again and she hates it and his grandmother is just a hteful person she got mad at me for putting wedding picutres up on FB that included her ex-husband she thought I did it to intentionally hurt her and make her mad.
Whao, hurley, that's is so horrible! I'm sorry about the family drama... and those are some scary family members to have to deal with... I'm so glad your DH finally saw the light and realized what was going on!!!
As for my wedding bliss, I would have to say it went away right after the hm too. We almost had to go to court with our rental company, one of my bridesmaids was angry with me that I missed her baby shower due being on our hm, and since we DIY'd everything our house was a complete mess from all of the wedding decor! I still have a bunch of stuff in storage that I've been meaning to sell but have been lazy. Ahh, post wedding was a bummer, but we were trying to concieve at the same time so I just moved my efforts into that, and tried not to worry about how sad it was that the wedding is over!