I always kind of press the back of my tounge to the back of my throat to close it off from goign allll the way back to where I'll gag. If you want to put it all the way in your mouth, do it slowly so you can stay relaxed. HTH!
Best way, get a lube or some sort of gel thing that tastes good. Then lube it up. The better it tastes, the less I tend to gag...
Surprise parties has a cupcake/frosting flavored lube. It tastes really good!
For me, it's kind of mind over matter. I just concentrate on NOT gagging. I know that sounds weird LoL.
Ditto the lube! And relaxing. I've actually tried the humming thing before and it does help a bit.
ditto the tongue to the back of the throat trick!
BREATH....best advice I could give! There are also mints and lubes out there to help with not gagging =]
i never try to take it all in, maybe try a bj , hj combo thats what i do usually
i would gag if i tried to take it all
Q - has anyone actually gone further than a gag and actually had a little come up????
Dh got a little to into it one evening and uncontroably added a little 'thrust' and next thing you know....... he had a present in his lap...... :/ opppssss.... felt pretty bad and was totallt grossed out with myself... thankfully DH saw the humor and just started laughing.....
Ditto the relaxation- it's th best thing that you can do! The tighter that your throat is, the less deep you'll be able to go with it.
SpringBride- I ALMOST had it happen. Luckily I withheld, but we quickly switched to regular sex lol
the girls got it...keep relaxed, lube (i like actual food items, ie. chocolate syrup), && tongue back
There is a product called Good Head that numbs the gag reflex
Yawning also helps you open up and relax your throat. :)