I'll Pencil You In...
So, my FI say's last night that we rarely DTD when he asks and that we have gotten into a habit of "scheduling" DTD. I was like, "No way"! And he says that yes we do becuase if he asks me for "it" I'll tell him maybe tororrow and it may or may not happen or we won't until a few days later.
Back-up: Now my FI is 12 years my junior so his libido is much stronger than mine at this point, when we first got together almost 4 years ago, it was an "everyday/every minute" we were alone thing. But now that we are settled into the relationship I admit the sex is lacking. It's not that I don't want to, but it seems that after working, picking up the kids, coming home and straightening up, cooking, and helping with homework, after I finally sit down I am tired and the last thing I want is sex.
Also he is a late night person and can stay up, where I am an early bird who goes to bed pretty much after the kids do (9:30 pm). So that doesn't help either.
How do/would you ladies handle this situation without feeling as if you are penciling in time to DTD?