I'm About To Lose It:Part 2

I have 36 days until the wedding and I feel like a zombie. My anxiety is thru the roof. I cant sleep, I'm angry, Hungry, my fiance is driving me CRAZY. I snore (very loudly) and last night he kept shaking me while i was sleeping so i would stop. Lets just say i woke up on the WRONG side of the bed. I have one million things left to do very limited funds and time. I hate to say it but i am almost glad this is almost over. Did anyone else get this way in the last few weeks or so. I feel like my head is going to explode.

Posted on January 4, 2013 at 12:18 am
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pavez19
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First thing, *Take a deep breath & let us hug you*. Second thing, this is totally normal. I remember feeling the exact same way 2-3 weeks before my wedding. We want everything to be perfect (stress!!!!!) and there a lot of things that can't be accomplish except a few weeks/days before the wedding. So at the end, we all feel overwhelmed, especially since we've been planning already for a long time. My best advice: Make lists. That's what save me cause I would definitly had forget some things and just seeing everything left to do on paper reassured me a lot. 


And don't worry sweetie, even though you don't feel like it, you'll make it, I'm sure. Your wedding we'll be amazing!!!!! Good luck and try to enjoy the last few moments of planning. I know it's hard ot believe, but we missed it when it's over!

Posted on January 4, 2013 at 12:22 am
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Yes, take a breath and we are all definitely behind you cheering you on.  I think that the last 2 weeks before the wedding are usually the most stressful.  I went through it as well because there seemed that there was so much to do and not enough time to get it done. 


You WILL get through this and we are all here for you, and your day is going to be so amazing.  You will be married to your best friend and all of the stress that you have gone through will just be a memory.  : )  (((hugs)))

Posted on January 4, 2013 at 1:17 am
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The ladies are definitely here for a hug or two!! It is definitely normal to feel stressed leading up to the big day. But ditto Pascale and Becca...in the end, you will be married to the love of your life and it will be beautiful. You will definitely get to the point where certain things you just won't care about anymore! lol. Especially towards the end with limited funds, it's like let's just do this already :D Just breathe!

Posted on January 4, 2013 at 1:24 am
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Dearest what you are feeling is normal and everyone one of us have experienced what you are feeling so don't feel bad! Two months before the wedding I wasn't even excited at all and had to get plenty of PW love and cheer! I was stressed and crying on the day of my wedding, but when I saw My Cale waiting for me right before I started my walk down the aisle, nothing and no one mattered except that I was about to be Mrs. Young. As Pascale said, we want our day to be "perfect" but really, the only thing perfect about the day is you marrying the love of your life. 


I cut my finger open so bad the day before the wedding I thought I would need stitches. If you look closely in my pictures, you can see my bandaged finger! I was running around the day of my wedding picking up food, buying flowers, disliking a couple of my bridesmaids and I had a total meltdown. I swear when I saw my groom beaming sunshine, standing tall and proud waiting for me, I forgot all the events leading up that moment. Just breathe, step away from the wedding stuff for at least a day and keep telling yourself, I am marrying my soulmate! Sending you lots of hugs!

Posted on January 4, 2013 at 4:39 am

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