I'm new... and need some "help"

Yikes... I can't believe I took the plunge and joined! LOL My fh and I have been together for 10 years and only been with one another so.... reading the posts in here has opened up my eyes a bit! lol


So..... fh is away and has been for 2 weeks... he'll be back next week and I want to surprise him with something! I just have NO clue what or how to do anything romantic/sexy etc..


What would you do if your man was away for 3-4 weeks.... how would you surprise him with something?


Any ideas or suggestions!! :)

Posted on February 21, 2010 at 5:53 am
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I would go to victorias secret and get some pretty lingeri. ;) Sp? :) IMO


Welcome to the DTD group! :)

Posted on February 21, 2010 at 10:24 am
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Would you believe I've never bought lingerie before?? *blush*... I have NO idea where to start... LOL I've always been worried about walking in and having to ask about how to wear things like garters etc.... so I've just avoided it...but I really want to find something cute, sexy for next week!!!

Posted on February 21, 2010 at 11:51 am
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Girl, you are totally gonna knock his socks off!  The good thing about having a week before he gets back is that you can go out and buy something and plenty of time to bring it home, put it on, and get used to it.  Plus, if you have a question about what you got, you can take a picture of it (no, you don't need to be wearing it at the time) and post the picture and ask the DTD group ladies for help.  One thing for sure, though....make sure you're wearing super-sexy heels when you put on the lingerie for him.  They will instantly amp up the sexiness factor big-time!


If you're not comfortable buying lingerie yet, or you shop and can't find something you're excited about, another idea is to get a frilly, feminine apron and when he comes home, be cooking (or heating up) dinner wearing sexy black panties and bra, sexy heels, and the apron...and nothing else.  What guy can resist a sexy woman in the kitchen?

Posted on February 21, 2010 at 12:26 pm
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Get some massage oil (he is probably going to need a one) warm for a few seconds in the microwave, and rub him down, get a bottle of wine, and that should get the party started!!!

Posted on February 21, 2010 at 12:52 pm
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LOL thanks Laura... I hope so!! He has no idea that I'm actually planning something... but I've missed him soooo much and really want to be more open with these things! 


I LOVE the apron, sexy kitchen idea..... I can't pull it off this time because I have to pick him up from the airport.... but I'll have many more opportunities to try it.... he would die! lol I really love that idea!!


I think I'll go to the mall... and see what I like? I'm just afraid of looking like a clueless person in there... it can be so intimidating!

Posted on February 21, 2010 at 12:54 pm
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Ohh... massage oil would be great! Never used that before either... lol goodness I don't know how we've managed to get this far LOL 

Posted on February 21, 2010 at 12:56 pm
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In my opinion, the babydoll style makes perfect starter lingerie.  There's nothing complicated about them, but they're still super-sexy.....and well, easy access for when he can't keep his hands off you! 


Here are some examples of sexy babydoll styles from Fredericks.com.  Look these over so you'll know what you're looking for, and then if you want to, when the sales person at Victorias Secret asks if she can help you, just tell her you'd like help and you're looking for something in a babydoll style.


Rosita BabydollEmily BabydollBeaded Ribbon BabydollRhinestone Heart BabydollSatin Heart BabydollSequin Emily BabydollHolly BabydollMesh & Lace Halter BabydollSheer Lace-Trim Babydoll Plus

Posted on February 21, 2010 at 1:13 pm
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doooo it! It'll be such a fun surprise for him!


I've done it before, and every single time he still gets excited.

Posted on February 21, 2010 at 3:40 pm
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If even a babydoll seems a little too overwhelming to start with, a matching tank and panties will go a long way, if you've got the right attitude with it. :)  The best advice I can give is: start small.  If you feel like it's a big production, you won't relax, and you FI will feel that, and neither of you will have a good time.  Just let it go where it goes, and don't stress about 'scripting' it.  The biggest turn on is enthusiam. :)


P.S.  My FI goes away a lot for work.  I usually just jump him when he gets home. ;)

Posted on February 22, 2010 at 2:46 am
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I'm so doing it!!! I'm really excited... mostly just to see his face! LOL I am heading to the mall on Friday.. wish I could go earlier but I live quite aways out! I will let you guys know how I do in my search lol.... 


I'm definitely going to try and be relaxed and happy! I definitely don't want to be stressed and stiff or scripted... LOL maybe a glass of wine beforehand may help! hahaha


I'm soo excited!! 

Posted on February 22, 2010 at 12:29 pm
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Sometimes, I just by a new pretty bra and matching panties.. because of the inablility to set up the production.. So it is just under my clothes when get ready for bedtime. Then things heat up!

Posted on February 22, 2010 at 3:12 pm
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Ok... so here is a question... I'm looking online at some of my lingerie options for tomorrow... and I'm confused by the garter belt?


1. What is the point of the belt?


2. How do you clip on to thigh high stocking? Or is it just tucking in? I'm confused


 

Posted on February 26, 2010 at 3:05 pm
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The point is to hold up the thigh highs.  Now they're often made with a bit of a gripper inside so they can stay in place on their own, but that wasn't always the case.  They started as a functional thing, but they have such a sexy look that they stayed popular.


And you do clip them on.  Here's a YouTube video that shows you how:


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w5_OJqUnKNA

Posted on February 27, 2010 at 10:45 am
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THANK YOU Laura!!!! :) :)


So I finally summoned enough courage and walked in and bought something! The lady there must have seen me walking around confused as heck... lol but she was really friendly and not judging or anything! Suprisingly... I found out that both her and the changeroom  attendant both wear garters and stockings almost daily.. LOL yeah.. we had some interesting conversation!!


So I ended up with a black lace and satin push-up bustier thingie with garter strings attached, black satin thong and black stockings with lace up on the thigh part! I felt like such a "grown up".. LOL and I'm 28 for crying out loud!! I almost bought the fishnet stockings... but chickened out! lol


I gave fh a hint today that I was planning something special and he was sooo excited!! :) :) I think he is going to be floored!!!

Posted on February 27, 2010 at 11:57 am
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I'm so proud of you!  Knock him dead, girl!  ;)

Posted on February 28, 2010 at 3:44 pm
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That will be awesome! He will be so surprised and excited!! I am glad that you decided to go get something! :)

Posted on March 1, 2010 at 9:04 am

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