i'm turning into a bridezilla...looong post
the saga continues...
my mom emailed me earlier today about my dad's side of the family coming to the wedding.
if you didn't read my post from the weekend, my dad's side of the family keeps adding more cousins and he won't tell them no. our venue and budget can only accommodate 100 guests. 9 of these guests are from dad's side and i don't know them.
all 9 of them told my mom that they are leaving right after dinner so they don't have to get a hotel. half live in fresno and the other half escondido so it's about a 2-3 hour drive from the venue.
i find it very rude that people would invite themselves to our small wedding to eat and leave. they won't even be there for the cake cutting.
on top of that, my grandma was supposed to stay with my aunt in escondido before the wedding. she doesn't feel like driving to LA to get her so my dad suggested my grandma share a room with he and my mom. my poor mom.
as suggested, i told my dad that i feel like they're having a family reunion at me and my FI's expense and inconvenience. he just ignored me - it's like talking to a wall.
if they stuck around for a bit to try and talk to my new husband and me, it would be different. i feel like they're just coming for the meal.
there's really nothing i can do - i just needed a place to bitch and moan.