I need advice as to

slowly start anal. I always wanted to try it, but in my head, always said i'd wait til I was engaged or married. Now that I'm engaged I want to start, BUT I'M SCARED TO DEATH.  


Help!!!  

Posted on February 18, 2010 at 12:48 am
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Niecy
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Ive only managed it like once .... not for me ...  but my advice ... start having him "pay more attention"  to that area before attempting this .... this may help .... also I don't think I could have gone through with it without a lot of alcohol :)  ...and you will need lots o lube :)


Hopefully someone who has repeat experience can offer more :)

Posted on February 18, 2010 at 1:14 am
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I would buy Anal Ease. I really dont know how well it works, but I know it numbs it...then just be very slow and easy.....

Posted on February 18, 2010 at 3:21 am
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we have used analease, but make sure you take your time and let it start working, for me thats about 10-15mins before I can tell its kind of numb. Luuube too. Dont rush because the pain from doing it wrong is NOT worth it!


I still dont really like it, but FI is OBSESSED and wants it all the time.

Posted on February 18, 2010 at 4:15 am
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Thanks, This is gonna be a slooooow process =)

Posted on February 18, 2010 at 5:04 am
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I have never tried it, but here is a link about how to begin it.


http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/31814/a_beginners_guide_to_anal_sex.html

Posted on February 18, 2010 at 5:20 am
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My FI would really like to try this with my, but I am really scared about it and I don't like pain.

Posted on February 18, 2010 at 5:21 am
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Anytime I have even attempted it, it was after many drinks. 


My cousin likes to do it, she says the key is to stay relaxed and use lots of lube.  And as gross as this sounds, as he's pushing in you are supposed to push out (kwim?) so that it opens it up for him.  (Sorry if that was gross)

Posted on February 18, 2010 at 5:31 am
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I don't think I could ever do it!  psychologically I can't get there. 

Posted on February 18, 2010 at 2:13 pm
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Don't try it without lots and LOTS of lube. I always hated it except like once when I was really drunk. He used to be obsessed, but got over it after realizing how uncomfortable it was for me. The pain isn't worth it to me, but I'm glad I tried it.

Posted on February 18, 2010 at 2:22 pm
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It's really not that bad.  MAKE him use lube though, and you just need to relax. I never thought it hurt, but it's kinda weird. Not gonna lie.

Posted on February 19, 2010 at 12:09 pm
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My FI is obsessed with it and I hate it! Go very slow, use lots of lube and I find it easiest to lay on my back with a pillow under my butt (bringing me up higher to his level) You will have to play around with different positions to see what works for you, but just be patient and have him go slowly.


Good luck! lol

Posted on February 19, 2010 at 12:16 pm
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I used to do a lot. I really had to lube up and i seriously had to be the mood for it. The pain that you get when it's not ready for entry is so bad!


Posted on February 19, 2010 at 12:20 pm
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Lube yes, but I think it's key to go very slow. Make him take his time and wait for you, and don't make it 'dirty' the first time.  FI was very gentle and in tune with me when we did it, and that helped me relax.  We didn't even discuss it beforehand, it just sort of happened so I wasn't stressed out wondering what to expect. Chest is so right, though: it feels SO weird!  Not my fave thing, and after FI tried it once, the novelty wore off, and we haven't done it since.

Posted on February 19, 2010 at 12:29 pm

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