I need advice from my awesome PW girls!
Hi ladies! Okay this is a touchy subject, so I thought who better to get advice from than all of you! When your involved in a situation it's easy for us to let emotions get the best of us, so I figured maybe someone on the outside looking in could help:
Lets say I have this friend. Who is very polite and sweet to our faces but trashes us behind our backs and says they will not be coming to our wedding. The truth is I couldn't care less. It's a silly, selfish reason why they don't want to come...apparently they are unhappy to not have a role in the wedding. It is just a friend, who I've known since childhood...we're just not super close since the last 6 or 7 years and with our bridal party consisting of ALL family and 2 VERY best friends personally, I don't see a big deal. Plus, the guy vs gal ratio would be uneven. AND I was going to have a small role for this person, but when I heard all the trash I was like ummm...NEVERMIND! The problem for me is people in my wedding party are also friendly with this person. So I have a hard time "calling them out" because I don't want to "create waves". Even though I'm a very vocal person!
A: Say...sooooo when were you going to tell me to my face that you weren't coming to my wedding? (That way I don't waste my money sending an invite when I don't even want her/him there because of the nasty things being said.
B: Just ignore it and send an invite and pretend my friends didn't tell me, send an invite knowing they won't come so that I gave them the option and I'm keeping the peace with everyone.
I know normally I would tell the person your a 2 faced biotch, but I'm so happy with my life right now I JUST DON'T CARE! People who do that are insecure so it actually makes me feel bad for them.
How would you girls handle it? Sorry this is SO long! Love ya gals!!!! TIA :)