I Need To Vent!!
Ugh... I'm so pissed... again! Seems that this week, every night something pops up to make me more stressed and mad.
Ok, so tonight I decided to send emails to each person on the list who got a wedding invitation. I asked everyone to respond by June 20 and out of 150 invites, I've gotten maybe 20. Anyway, I also emailed each groomsman and bridesmaid to see if they were bringing a date with them also; I just want to be sure to have enough food.
One of the groomsmen tells me that he didn't think he'd get off to come and start giving me excuses. He then suggests we find a replacement to cover him. He even had the nerve to ask if we had a replacement... well, no! I don't have replacements lined up to fill in for the bridal party if someone decides not to show up. It's a good thing I emailed him, otherwise I wouldn't have known that he didn't plan on showing up to the wedding.
Our wedding is July 19th, a little over a month away and he knew a good 6 months ago when our day was. Why commit if you knew you couldn't do it? Also, why not request off when you know you neede that day of to begin with? I just told him not to worry about being at the wedding, that I would figure something out; I don't want to be in a bind having to pay for a tux he doesn't pick up.
So here I am, one month before the wedding trying to find someone to cover at the last minute, I'm totally pissed. I do not understand why someone would say their honored to be a part of your wedding, then have no intentions of coming, much less telling you they can't make it.
Anyone else going through this too???