if you could do it over...

if you could plan your wedding over again... would you do it differently?

my answer? yes! there are a lot of things i would have done differently. in the end though, it's all about commiting yourself to someone you love. =)

two things i'd do differently... let our parents invite so many people and i should have hired a DOC.
Posted on March 8, 2007 at 2:47 pm
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what i've always subscribed to is "it's JUST one day"  yes it's my wedding day - but inevitably, something will go astray--- someone's meal will be too cold, someone's too hot, there will be a wobbly chair somewhere, someone's baby will cry during the ceremony, i may not get to weighing 105 like i want, fh will be late, i will be late, my father may not show up... the list goes on and on - but what will make the day be perfect---> i'm starting a journey with my best friend and the man i choose to be my hubbs - and what's better than that???


i try not to get sucked into thinking i MUST have certain elements and having a lot of "stuff" at the wedding and not freak out over color combos, matching everything and other people's thoughts...

Posted on July 1, 2008 at 3:28 am
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and i should add that my "non-chalant" 'tude doesnt alwasy sit well with others... people feel like i shuold care more - but it's not that i dont care - but there are other things more important than this one day or the aesthetics of this one day...  i do care - i just care more about my actual marriage than my wedding...


 

Posted on July 1, 2008 at 3:31 am
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The way I originally wanted it:
Me, FI, parents, some close family, some close friends, in a beautiful spot on a beautiful day in Yosemite.
Tasty little cake & champagne.

Later:
Great big fun BBQ back home.

**sigh**


If only....
Posted on July 1, 2008 at 3:35 am
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