Alright ladies, DH and I have officially had our first big blow out. I don't think I'm over re-acting, I don't see his point of view, he doesn't see mine.
I'll try to make it short. DH has a female friend I don't like. He met her when she was "dating" his married friend. So all I know about this girl is she has no problem sleeping with married men... they got together while I was away for work, and found out from her 3 weeks later when the 3 of us went out for dinner. I was furious... anyway, we've talked about that, he knows I don't trust her. I love DH dearly, I know he adores me and would never cheat on me. I just afraid of them getting together while I'm gone, he's lonely and drunk, and well... you can see where I am going with this.
Anyway come home last night, need a number he texted me, and I find in his outbox "I love you Megan" to her. I FREAKED out. He says its just how they are, they were just joking, They are just friends, and I need to realize that.
I can't realize that. I think it is totally inapproproiate and unacceptable behavior. Esp because he knows I don't like her. I know he would never cheat on me, but this whole situation makes me terribly uncomfortable. I don't want to be that wife and say "Its marriage with me or friendship with her" but honestly, thats how I feel...
How do I deal with this situation ladies???