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One of my bf's DH already told me that if you sleep with somebody on the first night, that things won't work out.


I find this interesting because it's true for me and true for them. I was wondering if this applies to anyone else? And what is your take on it?

Posted on February 11, 2010 at 6:10 am
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Hmmm....interesting...it's true for me as well.  First night DTD...omen? hmm that's very interesting.  Although I have heard of other couples that have DTD the first night and have worked out so I don't really know what to think. :/

Posted on February 11, 2010 at 6:16 am
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Very interesting.  I think it would have some measure of truth in is, simply because of trust issues, (if you slept with me so easily, will you cheat easily too?) Not that it would be true across the board, but in general.  I have never been with anyone but FI and we had been together officially for over two weeks.  I just knew he was THE ONE.  Crazy.

Posted on February 11, 2010 at 6:20 am
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Well I'm sure it could happen either way. I think it's interesting to see what happened with the ladies here.

Posted on February 11, 2010 at 6:20 am
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I don't think you can paint all situations with the same brush...


But it has never worked out for me.

Posted on February 11, 2010 at 6:24 am
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Fi and I DTD before we were seeing each other...I knew him for a couple months prior I don't know if it's the same thing??  It's working for us! =)

Posted on February 11, 2010 at 6:25 am
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Posted on February 11, 2010 at 6:25 am
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miss_em - I totally agree that not every situation is the same. I just think it's an interesting topic.

Posted on February 11, 2010 at 6:28 am
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sorry..I meant 'you' figuratively...not 'you' literally!!

Posted on February 11, 2010 at 6:30 am
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It's all good. I knew what you meant. I just elaborated a little more.

Posted on February 11, 2010 at 6:34 am
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DH and I DTD on our first date.  I had known him a couple of days.  So far it's working for us.  :)


I know another couple that is married that DTD on their first date.  They've been married about 10 years.


I know lots of people it didn't work out for though.

Posted on February 11, 2010 at 7:03 am
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We DTD on our 2nd date and we're now married and been together happily for almost 8 years!  I think it all depends on the individuals.

Posted on February 11, 2010 at 10:59 am

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