Is it just me

Planning a wedding is stressful and all I think about is wedding I dream about my day every night and some friends and family said that I'm turning into a bridezilla is this normal

Posted on April 13, 2012 at 1:08 am
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I think it's somewhat normal.  You're getting close to your day so it makes sense that that's all you think about.  When you think about something so much it makes sense that you dream about it too.  What bridezilla behaviors are you exhibiting?  Are you doing all the planning yourself or do you have help?  Do you have a hobby that you can focus on for a day to get your mind off the wedding?

Posted on April 14, 2012 at 4:29 pm
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I'm doing all the planning myself and some help I just want to make sure everything turn out right so I do alot of yelling and demands with the people that do help. I'm just want people to understand that its my day.

Posted on April 16, 2012 at 8:30 am
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I'm doing all the planning myself and some help I just want to make sure everything turn out right so I do alot of yelling and demands with the people that do help. I'm just want people to understand that its my day.

Posted on April 16, 2012 at 8:30 am
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I'm doing all the planning myself and some help I just want to make sure everything turn out right so I do alot of yelling and demands with the people that do help. I'm just want people to understand that its my day.

Posted on April 16, 2012 at 8:30 am
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It is your day, but also take a step back and think about why it is making you yell at people. There does need to be some balance in there about getting what you want, but also realizing that life isn't always perfect and there will be things that go wrong or that you have to compromise on.

Posted on April 16, 2012 at 9:08 am
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It's tough because you know what you want and sometimes people don't do things the same way, but just think "is the end result the same?". Do I want to burn bridges with this person, before you tell! Yes it's your day, but it's also your parents day to celebrate their child's marriage, it's your fiance's day, and his parents day so don't get too caught up on "me, me, me"

Don't sweat the small stuff!
Posted on May 16, 2012 at 4:13 pm
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Awwwh, planning is very stressful and overwhelming! When you feel like your getting heated, just walk away and try to calm down. After that finish what you where talking about or doing! But being a bridezilla is very normal!

Posted on May 17, 2012 at 7:54 am

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