Is it really THAT hard to understand?
I don't know how many ways to tell you but I am NOT inviting people to our wedding that either are just friends of yours or people you want to send an invite to "because they'll send you gifts" and you're "sure will not show up anyway"
Have you ever been to a wedding? People show up, people you don't even know were in your family show up to a wedding.... helllo
Two things I have a problem with.
1. You trying to invite people just to get gifts. Screw that! That's rude and childish.
2. I've told you many many times that FI and I do not have 20,000+ dollars to spend on some huge wedding, when we budgeted, we had to cut people. If you would like to fork out some cash which you have yet to do and I don't care about then and only then may you add 50 extra people to our guest list. Until then STFU!
Oh and there is a third thing....
3. Please for you love of jesus stop telling us you're going to "help" when you're not. You've been saying for months that you were going to "give us money for the wedding" and you haven't, not only have you not but you keep trying to add extra expense we can't afford.