is it rude?

My best friend is getting married next Saturday and she has been so stressed over the fact that she won't have enough room I'm her reception area for everyone. I keep telling her it will be OK. It will work out. The reception space fits 250 and she invited twice as many. Today she told someone we are both kind of friends with that she couldn't come because she is 15 over the room capacity. I told my best friend that only one more won't make a difference. I just saw it was rude of her to personally invite someone and then say they can't come. And I personally think she should have planned her reception space better for the large amount of people that she invited. What do you think? Maybe its just my way of thinking. 

Posted on January 10, 2014 at 2:38 am
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when you book a space they tell you the maximum number of people you can have.  she should have known the final number of her guest count before shopping for a venue to make sure the place they booked would be big enough.  it is rude and poor taste.  in my opinion, weddings reveal whether people have common sense and think things through or not.  been to too many weddings where it was obvious the couple had no common sense.

Posted on January 10, 2014 at 2:48 am
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 Ooh, burn. Yea that's rude. :(

Posted on January 10, 2014 at 9:17 am
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 Ouch, yep definitely rude.

Posted on January 10, 2014 at 10:05 am
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Yep, pretty rude. Poor planning and her bad, sorry.

Posted on January 10, 2014 at 11:07 am
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 In my Stepanie Tanner (Full House tv show) voice  "How Rude!!!"

 

Stephanie Tanner

Posted on January 10, 2014 at 12:16 pm
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 Yeah that was rude.  :\ 

Posted on January 10, 2014 at 4:26 pm
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 Lol, Zeuster!!! Love it

Posted on January 11, 2014 at 12:05 am
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 My bestie here is usually such a sweet person and I love her to death... but I just couldn't believe she told the young lady she could no longer come. But this morning she texted me saying she felt bad and told her that she could come. I'm glad she did. She just gets soooooo stressed so easily she let's it cloud her judgement sometimes. But the issue is resolved!

Posted on January 11, 2014 at 2:46 am

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