Just wanted to share!

I had a rough day yesterday. . My face swelled up on Wednesday and I missed worked. I assumed it was from a tooth that needed to get pulled but turns out after I went to the dentist, it is from my jaw bone. To make a long story short, I have to see several dental specialist in the upcoming months to come up with a plan to repair my jawbone that did not grow completely. It is a hereditary genetic disorder from my mom's side of the family. Everything is really expensive, insurance won't cover a good portion of it and I am going to have to take my second job back to offset some of the cost. I was completely and totally frustrated, so I called DH. Words of encouragement and support always escape him when something initially happens and that just made me more frustrated, which I shouldn't have been because that is how he is. The whole drive home I replay in my mind again and again how many days I will have to work at second job and how I will pay for things. When I get home, I walk in the kitchen and on the table are roses with a card. When I read the card, my heart swelled with love and tears filled my eyes. The card was telling me to take one day at a time but today, sing, dance or do whatever I needed to do to get through the day. DH was standing behind me the whole time and when I turned around, I laid my head on his chest and felt the weight of the world lift. He said he got six roses to signify the six years we have been together and how we always manage to get through everything. Just love this man!


The moral of my story - Our DH/FI/SO may not always know the words to say, but they always seem to know what to do to make it all better. Always remember this when things get rough! DH fried me fish for dinner, made me a cocktail and said all kinds of things to make me laugh. Love is grand when it works!


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Posted on January 11, 2013 at 4:16 am
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Oh sweetie, I'm so very sorry that you are having to go through this.  We'll have to talk because I was born with a similar jaw thingy, so I am hear if you need to vent!


Tell Cale he is just a remarkable man!  Reading this touched my heart so much!!!  That was so sweet of him and I cannot agree with you more about sometimes we do not have the perfect words, but just being "present" makes all the difference in the world!!!  (((hugs)))

Posted on January 11, 2013 at 5:26 am
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Thank you Becca!!!! Oh wow I would love to vent with you sometimes! My sister's is worse than mine. Her jaw is basically non-existent. It feels good to talk to someone who can relate to what you are going through! Makes it easier to get through!


Yes, My Cale is remarkable and I thank God every day for him! Thanks Becca! I love your presence in my life!

Posted on January 11, 2013 at 5:34 am
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You are so welcome - message me anytime!!!  xoxo

Posted on January 11, 2013 at 3:18 pm
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Tressy -I'm so sorry you have to go through this on top of your work situation. I truly hope everything turns out well! Your DH is so sweet :) I love how they surprise us in times least expected.


Steph :)

Posted on January 11, 2013 at 4:07 pm
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oh tressy, you poor thing!!!  I really wish you better and it sounds so painful.  I'm so glad tha DH is looking after you :)  sending u hugs

Posted on January 11, 2013 at 11:27 pm
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I am actually drying a few tears after reading this. I am so so sorry. I understand pain, but not what you are going through. Facial pain seems to actually make people more miserable than any other. I pray for you to get some great answers and a doctor who will understand and work with you on your finances.


Peace love and light to Cale. He is a true blessing in your life, but I am sure you are as much a blessing to his. It takes real love to have a relationship like yours!!


I will add you to prayer list!


Blessings,


Bridie

Posted on January 12, 2013 at 12:49 am
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Oh Tressy, poor you!  I'm so sorry you're having to go through this, but I am glad that you have a man who supports you and lets you know that everything is okay.  What he did was so very sweet and probably spoke volumes more than any words he could have said.


I'm praying that you'll get good answers from the doctors and that you can work out a payment arrangement.  I know it's going to be okay, even if it looks really difficult right now.  :: hugs ::


 

Posted on January 12, 2013 at 3:10 am
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oh tressy, how happy am i to know tha your good heart is lying in his good hands. not always will the way be smooth but the person who loves you truly will always be able to make it good. 


i am so happy you have such a wonderful husband. you merit it

Posted on January 12, 2013 at 8:10 am
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You ladies are so incredibly sweet and supportive! What would I do without you?

Thank you Steph! I appreciate your kind words and nothing like the better half to be supportive, sweet and full of surprises!

Thanks adamsapple. The swelling is just about gone and the pain is minor thanks to medication!

Aww Idoagain you are a blessing and thank you so much! I can feel yout caring and concern!

Thanks Christina! I appreciate your heartfelt words! I think I have a good team of doctors. The owner was so nice and told me he would work with me.

Thanks Nicole! I adore you!
Posted on January 13, 2013 at 2:28 am
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Girl you are straight up making me a hot mess at work.  That is so sweet.  You and Cale always make me smile and yes, are always good for making me shed some tears too.  


I have extensive dental issues as well and know exactly how you feel Tressy.  My issues remain untouched because of the expenses.  In addition, I had/have 3 children that I swore would never go through what I went through and am still experiencing with dental issues.  Therefore I alwasy assured that they were taken care of first. 


One day at a time girl!


You have an amazing husband!

Posted on January 15, 2013 at 1:12 am
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Feel better TRESSY! What a sweet, sweet, swwwweeeeet hubby!

Posted on January 15, 2013 at 1:15 am
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Awww Nicole!!!! Thank you so much!!!!! Dental work is very expensive and it is made worse with jaw issues. My mouth is so small it was difficult to take all the x-rays! You are so sweet to take care of your children's needs! You are right! One day at a time! If I could clone Cale I would!


Thanks Jules!!!

Posted on January 16, 2013 at 2:08 am
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Ow my gosh Tressy, I'm sooooo sory you have to go through all this..


But I'm sure that with the love and support of your DH -who is so sweet in his oun way- you will get through!


(((HUGS)))

Posted on January 16, 2013 at 2:13 am
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Thanks Leni! He has been great and uplifting my spirits! Hard to stay down with the hubby I got and then he has a killer smile to boot!

Posted on January 16, 2013 at 2:21 am
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Oh doll I recently went thru some expensive dental work myself and it was stessful! You are right though, they dont always know the right words at first to make you feel better but somehow they figure it out at some point! Your Dh is so awesome!


Hopefully you can get something worked out. Our dental insurance is horrible and doesnt pay for hardly anything! Makes me wonder why we have it! lol

Posted on January 16, 2013 at 2:55 am
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The place I am going through seems awesome so far Ronda and the owner did my first consultation himself. He didn't charge me for the office visit or the x-rays. He said he is going to work with me. Yes Cale is my heartbeat!

Posted on January 16, 2013 at 4:36 am

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