Lack of Interest
I don't really know how else to put it, it just seems that I really have almost no interest in sex at the time. There are days when I think I want it, but by the time I get home and we're able to...I just really don't want to.
I thought for a while it was my BC, but I stopped taking it (switched to an IUD w/no hormones) and that helped a little, but not much. I think that my other meds could have something to do with it, but not really sure.
I love Dh, and I love his body, and I love the intimacy that sex brings, but I just...don't seem to want it. Over the past few months I have come up with various different reasons for this (stress, no time, too tired, kid sick, etc.) but even when those reason are absent I don't feel the urge.
DH complains about this constantly, and I know he wants what we used to have, when I was always ready to go, and we were DTD like...multiple times a day. I just don't know what's going on with me. And now...since he is STARVED for sexual attention, any time we're laying together, or cuddling, he starts groping me, which really just irritates me because then I feel like that all he wants (And no wonder when he's barely getting it!) when I want to be able to relax next to him without being molested...lol.
Any suggestions on how to get my drive back? How to want sex again? Or how to get in the mood for it?