Last Name advice...
OK so I went through a bunch of old posts looking for a thread on this... but couldn't find anything.
My FI and I are at a standstill re: the last name issue.
I really don't want to change my name, he really wants me too.
We are doing our premarital counseling and it turned into a big blow up actually.
I'm trying to think of some kind of compromise, he's not into the hyphen though... But I know sometimes people keep their names "professionally". This is sort of funny since my professional life isn't exactly flourishing right now. But I'm wondering if I could keep my name on my liscense and other papers, but socially (particularly in formal settings go by his last name?)
Has anyone done this or would you know how this would work?
How did you work out the name issue, it's really bumming me out! I don't want to start off on such a bad note.
thank you... it's really hard to be fighting when I'm supposed to be planning this big wedding... yuck!