Let's talk BABIES!

The closer I get to the wedding date the more I think about my new life as a wife and Sean being my family.  And then I start thinking about babies.  We want to wait 2-3 years before we start trying, but seriously, I cannot wait to have our beautiful baby!  When do you and your FI/DH plan on TTC?

Posted on October 16, 2009 at 3:13 am
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We agreed on a rough estimate of 2-3 years. At first I was leaning more towards 3 and he was kind of wanted to only wait 2 years. But now that we have two dogs he's like-dang if they're so much work I think I want to wait a little longer to have kids too! hahaha


but seriously, I think our kids will be adorable. We both have curly hair so I am pretty sure our kids will too = ) I didn't get hair until I was almost 2 years old-but everyone in Rafy's family was born with a full head of hair-so I'm hoping our kids take after him on that. They'll be born with little afros hahaha


A couple that I know (she's black/Cuban he's white) had a baby a couple months ago and he's seriously the most handsome thing. He's got a gorgeous light brown skin tone with big big brown eyes that make your heart melt

Posted on October 16, 2009 at 3:18 am
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your kids are going to be so adorable with their curly fros!  we so have to remember PW when we have kids that way we can share pictures of our babies! :)

Posted on October 16, 2009 at 3:20 am
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Ugh! Don't even get me started on this topic because I'm absolutely dying to be a mother. I'm inheriting a step daughter and can already look at her and see what my kids are going to look like. I love her to smitherines but it would be nice to have my own biological kids, right this second if I could. I think Jay and I are going to wait about a year or so only because he is 11 years older than I am (23 and 34) and I would like for our children to be born right before he sets into being a middle aged man (if that makes sense).

Posted on October 16, 2009 at 3:23 am
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yes Faith we have to! I want to see your babies!!!!

Posted on October 16, 2009 at 3:59 am
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@thenewmrs: it makes sense! :) 


you know that Jess we are going to have to meet one day, right?!

Posted on October 16, 2009 at 4:06 am
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FI and I have been talking about this almost daily!  We're so excited to see what they will look like and who they'll act more like.  :)  We said we would wait 2 years.  And then we're like.. why?  haha.  I mean our main reason was so that we could do the whole "travel" thing but that seems lame to us now cause we would take them along the way my parents did with me.  So... we're saying a year... :)

Posted on October 16, 2009 at 4:27 am
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yes Faith we do have to!

Posted on October 16, 2009 at 4:38 am
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We are going to TTC immediately.  FI will be 39 & me 31.  I can't WAIT! 

Posted on October 16, 2009 at 5:12 am
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I will be 32 when we get married and are going to try shortly after.  I am not the dying to be a mom person but I have a gorgeous niece and love seeing my mom and FMIL with her- and my FI.  He is the child whisperer, kids love him.  They don't like me so much! LOL

Posted on October 16, 2009 at 5:20 am
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So exciting for you who are trying right away!  :)

Posted on October 16, 2009 at 5:22 am
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Oooh - we're waiting. I don't think we'll be ready to have kids for awhile..we say before 30 but who knows. I have 2 nieces so far - and I can't hear my clock just yet..so who really knows..when they come I'll be SUPER excited though. We want 2 kids :)

Posted on October 16, 2009 at 5:48 am
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i cant wait to see how cute our babies will be, we want to wait at least 2.5 years before we start to trying,  as long as he has a great job. because we both agreed that it would be good for the children if i  stayed home for the first few years.

Posted on October 19, 2009 at 3:21 pm
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We had planned on TTC immediately.  I'm still kind of new in my job so I'm thinking that we'll need to put it off 6 mos or so.  He's convinced that we'll only have boys!  

Posted on November 3, 2009 at 6:14 am
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We go back and forth on this ONE a lot. We both really want kids, but we also know that we're "kids" ourselves (27 and 30). We're both ambitious and love to travel--and that definitely has to kind of give once we have kids ourselves. I think that realistically, we won't have any until 4-5 years from now.

Posted on November 3, 2009 at 7:13 am
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Seeing as though I will be inheriting a step-daughter the thought of kids is nothing new in our household; however, we've decided to wait until after I'm done with college and law school. So we've got some time before we TTC!

Posted on November 3, 2009 at 9:07 am
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at least one year after we get married? but, maybe soon? ha!

Posted on November 5, 2009 at 8:00 pm
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well were only 22 and 23 now and i still think thats a bit too young, but i want to wait until were around 25 and 26 to start trying. that will be right around the time we do our big vow renewal for our families(we eloped about 6 months ago). That way we'll be settled into married life, done with school, have a house, etc. but secretly i think my hubbys trying to knock me up now lol... he doesnt want to wait.

Posted on December 27, 2009 at 8:32 pm
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We talk about this all the time. We love kids and can't wait to have our own one day. We are going to wait awhile after the wedding so we can be settled, pay off a few of those student loans and be as prepared as we can be for it! 

Posted on January 18, 2010 at 4:30 pm
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I would love to be married without children for a year.  But age is working against us.  My FI is turning 40 in May; I'm turning 35 in August.  Our wedding is in July. Not to mention that I have uterine fibroids which might affect my chances at naturally conceiving or will make pregnancy painful :-(


So... I think I"m going off the pill on our honeymoon in November & try to get pregnant then.


 

Posted on March 16, 2010 at 2:02 pm
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4-5 years, so I can finish my graduate degree and he can finish his undergrad, we want to travel a lot before we settle down, but that doesn't stop the feeling I get every time I see a beautiful biracial baby, they are so precious :)

Posted on April 9, 2010 at 6:05 pm
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