LOOK AT ME!!!!

Hey ladies, need your input on this.


It will be five months since DH and I were married and we have been together (living)going on 7 years.  So we are not all that new to each other and may I add we are NOT in 20's or 30's and I may quite frankly be some of your moms age...ok I can almost here OMG she's like my mom!!! lol well maybe but, I am young at heart!!!


So back to my little dilemma.  I have always been wild when it came to the bedroom (it's like this other person comes out) and I havn't changed so when DH and I met it was great.  I didn't go nuts at first, I kind of went gradually so that I wouldn't scare him or intimidate him. when we first started making out he would look at me all the time and now it's like he has his eyes closed all the time.  It makes me feel unattractive or at times I feel like he is imaganing or thinking of someone Else.  I know that DH last wife was a bomb shell and it kind of irritates me cause I know that I don't hold a candle to her when it comes to looks.  But I am confident in the bedroom part...hehehehe.


It has come to the point where I find myself making excuses not to have sex and I am hurting inside and to put it less disriptavely... I have taken matters in my own hands on my own time ;)


I'm not sure if all of this makes sense, but I want my DH to look at me when we make love...any suggestions????

Posted on March 30, 2012 at 5:13 am
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This is one of those early marriage things I think, but I wouldn't take it too personally.


My DH is by far and away the most intense and wonderful sex partner I've ever had, however, I am an eye-closer.  He watches me at all times.  However, as they say, when you close your eyes, other sense are um, heightened.  Hence why I do it - I don't even mean to, it's just a reflex.


I wouldn't take it too personally, however, if it bothers you, talk to him!  Communication is key!!

Posted on March 30, 2012 at 9:22 am
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Thanks TimilyL for the advice...but before it never was a problem...just the last couple of years and you are right about communication is the key.  I just love the expression on his face I find it very sexy and erotic...lol It also helps me on MY journey...lol


Thank you again :)


 

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Hey Maggie, how have things been lately? I know what you mean, but sometimes those other senses are taking over. Hope all is going ok ;)

Posted on April 10, 2012 at 3:44 am
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Hey Uhlease Things are the same and I guess I never thought of it that way...and like I said at the beginning he use to look at me and I loved it....lol

Posted on April 10, 2012 at 4:30 am

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