Lord Help Me....

So last week something possessed me to agree to going to a "Slumber Party" with my SIL (Like Pampered Chef but with adult "toys")...anyway this party is tonight and I'm starting to get a little nervous. I'm imagining all sorts of crazy things and my anxiety level is rising by the minute.


I don't necessarily consider myself a prude but this type of thing definitely makes me blush...add to that, that the person I'm going with is my DH's sister....so it's even weirder if I were to actually get something...kwim??


So help me out girls! Is it really as bad as I'm thinking...or is it more tame? I need some reassurance here

Posted on February 3, 2010 at 8:49 am
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No it's not that bad. I mean they let you try the stuff out. Not out in the open but you can go try it in the bathroom. They give you a smell arm and a taste arm to try out the stuff.

Posted on February 3, 2010 at 9:02 am
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This might sound stupid but what do they have you try that you have to go to a bathroom...and does everyone "try" the same thing...lol!
Posted on February 3, 2010 at 9:04 am
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LOL The last one I went to, they had some kind of nipple cream and some kind of cream that's supposed to make you hot or something down there. They take a Q tip or something and put some on there and you can go try it.

Posted on February 3, 2010 at 9:10 am
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I've never been to one but i'm sure it's not that bad...but I can definately see how it would be kinda weird with it being your FSIL and all...I'm sure it will be fine though.

Posted on February 3, 2010 at 9:10 am
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Yeah I just really don't want to know what my SIL brings into the bedroom...kwim? and vise versa....
Posted on February 3, 2010 at 9:13 am
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Well the only way you'll know what she buys is if she tells you.  They take you into another room to make any purchases in private.  Is she the type to want to make sure everybody knows what's going on in her business?


My sister had one as part of her bachelorette party.  It was a Pure Romance party, actually.  Some of the girls were very bold with what they talked about.  Some (including me) weren't.  Everybody had a good time, though.


I thought the funniest moment of the night was when the very polite consultant was showing a product called Riding Dirty.  She told about how you suction it to the wall of the shower and use it in there.  We also had brochures with all the products in them.  All of a sudden, my cousin, who was sitting next to me saw it in the brochure and realized what it was for and squealed out "Oh my gosh!  It's for your BUTT!!!"  HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!  Cracked me up.

Posted on February 3, 2010 at 9:46 am
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OMG!!!! LOL!!!! That is not tame at all!!! I was thinking some lube...vibrating stuff...maybe a thing or two for the guys but something that you stick to the wall of the shower that's for your BUTT!!!! I have no words....


I've told DH my concerns and he thinks that everything should be fine and not to worry...just have a glass of wine and smile and it'll be over before I know it.


Tara be expecting some interesting text messages tonight...

Posted on February 3, 2010 at 10:24 am
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LOL...The funny thing was that she was so polite and discreet about everything....unless someone asked for an explanation....then she was blunt.  She was this lady probably in her late 40's with a long floral dress and was a little on the homely looking side.  That's why it was so funny to see her presenting these products. 


But seriously, for the most part it was lotions and sprays and stuff.  There were a few vibrators and stuff like that.  I think they get a feel for what the crowd is like and that determines how bold they get.  This group of girls were talking about their sex swings, so she didn't really have to hold back much.


I really don't think you have anything to be worried about, though.  You'll have a good time.  I completely agree with your DH. 

Posted on February 3, 2010 at 10:35 am
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Oh man, I feel you on the awkwardness. FI's friend's girlfriend invited me to one of these. I have only met this girl a few times! I politely declined. FI wants me to get out and make friends more, but I told him: this is NOT the way!!

Posted on February 3, 2010 at 3:49 pm
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 I did my FSIL bachlorette party and we did one of these before we went out except it was called "pure romance". SO MUCH FUN! even FMIL was there and had a blast. Im not shy about sex, so its fun to let loose. Youll be fine. have fun

Posted on February 3, 2010 at 7:28 pm
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I am probably the most conservative girl you will ever meet when it comes to this stuff, but I went to one and had SO much fun. It was done in a VERY classy way, and it was never awkward. I'm sure it depends on the other people with you, I did it with girls from where I worked and had a blast!

Posted on February 4, 2010 at 12:06 am
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They are so much fun, you will have a blast!

Posted on February 4, 2010 at 12:25 am
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I went to one a few years ago and had a blast! It's very discreet when (or if) you make a purchase, and you don't need to tell anyone.  It's really enlightening to see all the products for ladies to use on their own, and very intersting to see the couples stuff (gets your imagination revving!)


Don't let it stress you out; go with an open mind and a good sense of adventure.  Don't forget~ you can always fake a headache or sore tummy if you want to leave early. :)

Posted on February 4, 2010 at 12:26 am
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That riding dirty thing isnt necesarrily for your BUTT! lol, I think maybe she just chose to use it that way b/c honestly I have one that you can stick to the wall in the shower and trust me its not for my backdoor.  Dont worry, most women dont get out of hand, and if you want to try and cream or something, you'll just go to the restroom alone!  I enjoyed myself when I went!  It was fun, finding creative ways to spice up the bedroom.  And if you are embarrassed to buy anything in front of the other ladies especially your FSIL, pull the lady to the side and ask for her number just in case you want to order later.  It should be on her brochure though.  No worries.  Do like FI said, and have a glass of wine and listen to the stories.  Just smile and you dont have to share your bedroom habits!

Posted on February 4, 2010 at 12:43 am
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Ok I'm back with my review!


The night started off hugely awkward! There was like 50 ladies there and I only knew 2 or 3 total. The consultant had us all go around the room and tell everyone our names followed by 1 of 3 of the following but it had to start with the first letter of your name: 1) favorite position 2) How you like your man 3) how you like your sex


Because of where I was sitting I was lucky enough to get to go first!!! :( So not only and I super uncomfortable cause I have to go first, but I don't know anyone and my SIL is sitting right next to me....I had a mental block and all I could come up with for "A" was the Anal position...ugh...not off to a good start! I don't even like anal! Off to get another drink!


Then comes all the lotions and potions. Not so bad...we were shown bubble bath, and shaving cream (called coochie) and candles that the wax doesn't burn...all pretty tame. And then came the nipple cream!!! I was warned by TK that if it's pink (which it was) not to try it cause it will stain your bra!! I'm forever grateful for the warning!! Q-tips were passed around and ladies were all giggling and I was thinking to myself...you wont' be giggling when your bra has a big pink stain on it :)...


Another break before we moved into the "heavy artilitery"...off to get another drink!! That was a WHOLE other world!!! Some of these things called for a C battery...some a D!! The vibrating sound was crazy!!! Some were intriging...some far to scary for me. But I studied and turned stuff on and off and it was all in good fun. (Didn't see "Riding Dirty")


So all in all it definitely wasn't as bad as I thought...the girls running to the bathroom to try creams kinda freaked me out...but at the end of the night I was fine.


***EDIT***


Thanks ladies for calming me down yesterday. Ya'll are so wise!!!

Posted on February 4, 2010 at 4:25 am
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Well I'm glad it wasn't as bad as you were afraid of.  I'm glad you had a little bit of a good time!  =)


 

Posted on February 4, 2010 at 9:40 am
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@jville - Oh, I'm sure there are other uses for it, but Pure Romance had it in their "Anal Play" section of their catalog.  And the lady was being so discreet that she didn't really describe what you were supposed to use it for other than suctioning it to the shower wall.  From your experience, it sounds like it's a "multitasker" (channeling Alton Brown here...LOL).

Posted on February 4, 2010 at 9:42 am
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Oh I LOVE the Coochie Cream I've been wanting to buy some more...  It worked really well for me...  I bought some other stuff but ex husband wouldn't let me use them (he locked them in his safe) and so I'm going to buy some new stuff for fiance and I....  he he he

Posted on February 4, 2010 at 10:07 am
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Chris uses Coochie to shave with. I use it on my legs too. Its amazing

Posted on February 4, 2010 at 9:30 pm
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I ditto your DH  Lucky's ...have a glass of wine ... just remember you don't have to do anything in front of anyone ...its just a bunch of products .... enjoy the night out with the girls!   RELAX ....If I could Id go with you  ;)

Posted on February 5, 2010 at 5:07 am
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