I hear its common for brides to lose friends while planning a wedding and after they are married...but how common is it for us who are already married to lose friends while doing a vow renewal?
I ask because recently I lost a friend over what I perceive is her being upset because I lost a bridesmaid and wanted her to replace the bridesmaid I lost, BUT my DH decided that he didnt want to add another person since the BM's went from 5 for 4 and he had 4 GM. That being said, I had to backtrack my invitation. This was in May...fast forward...there are other things she said that seemed a little petty to me. But at the end of the day we arent friends because she is marrying my cousin and I wasnt invited...although her engagement ring was picked out by me and I have been supportive (after I got over my initial feelings) Her reason of course was sucky for a best friend, basically she didnt tell me and I wasnt suppose to find out because I dont like to fly.
For me, someone who doesnt have a lot of friends, this kinda hurt. So tell me...is this a normal thing to lose friends while planning a wedding in general? I was gonna post this on the main board but IDK.