Mayday!!! Need advice, too much drama to handle! lol
So...life right now is INCREADIBLY hard for my FI and I. Long stories, but things like his office promised him a new job, and then have left him jobless for 2+ months even though he was supposed to start the new one (moving from one position to another) 2 months ago....living with family while we wait. Wedding family drama (mostly the usual. Not a huge deal.) I have health issues like crazy right now, ovary cysts, stomach ulcers (from all the stress), money stuff...pretty much you name it.
Wedding planning has been insanely hard so far! We can't even book anything until we have two incomes since we're paying for the whole thing ourselves.
BUT the biggest issue has come this weekend.
My FI's friend, who's basically family, got engaged on Valentines day. They want to get married this summer (I understand completely, I haven't liked having a long engagement either, so I support them on the "quick" engagement.)
HOWEVER, the new news is that they're now getting married the SATURDAY after us!!
I am shocked, upset, pissed and pretty much every emotion possible. These two and their families are like families to us (more so than my cousin that has decided to get married the same weekend as us, but that didn't even bother me honestly, we're not really family except for the blood/dna part.) But these guys are CLOSE. And they KNEW our date for about a year now. They also knew we were planning on a 2+ week honeymoon to Europe if my FI can get the time off work.
Advice? FI wants to ask them to change the date in all honesty. He's also one of the best men so he's expected to be home 5 days AFTER our own wedding to be a part of theirs.
What on earth do I do with this?!?! AHHH!