I have a mole (or as I've always said, beauty mark) between my nose and left side of my lip. I hated it as a child--- schoolchildren can be cruel-- but it became such a part of me over time. In the last 4 years or so I have a new one on my chin that I don't like as well, but I never thought twice about it. Neither are dangerous or malignant.
I am having an out of state wedding, and when I was home, both my mom and dad made several comments about the "new mole." My mom said, "Let's get it removed. You don't want that in your pictures forever." I was so offended!
She works in a hospital so she talks about it all medically... she calls is a "neebus" which REALLY MAKES ME CRINGE. You know those words that just piss you off? That is one of them. as;ldfkaj;sldkfj.
I would have never thought about it until now. I don't want a scar either, but it is better than a mole I guess, plus I get it removed for free by one of her friends.
My FI loves me the way I am and doesn't want to change me. I know my mom is trying to help, but she should have waited until I said something to bring anything like that up...