So I asked my MOH to set a date for the bridal shower because several people have asked when it's going to be. She has a lot of stuff going on she has two kids and just broke up with her new boyfriend and just got her boobs done a few weeks ago. Anyway so I called her and asked if we could just set a date I didn't need any other decisions to be made. I offered to let her have it at my house since she lives an hour away from the majority of the guests and asked that it be on a Saturday or Sunday afternoon. She works noon to 8pm on Saturday and 8am to 4pm on Sunday. So I said maybe we could have it at 3pm on Sunday and you could just leave work an hour early? But she wants to do it on a weekday night. I insisted that a weekend day would work out better for me (since it's at my house) So she said whatever just pick a day. I don't think I'm being unreasonable some of our family lives 3 hours away so they wouldn't be able to come if we had it that late on a weekday and everyone would have to work the next day and has families to make dinner for etc. So she is pissed about having to take time off work and demanded that we have the bacholette party on the same day so she wouldn't have to take two days off work. There is nothing that says your MOH has to be the one to throw you a shower. I'm just like whatever I don't even want to deal with it.