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I have been working two jobs for almost 2 months. I am physically, mentally and emotionally wore out. I am always exhausted. I am doing it because it's the only way we can afford our wedding without changing our date. 

I am so exhausted that I am rethinking it. I have been planning for a long time already. It will be 18 months of planning when our day arrives. I am not sure how much money I will lose though with deposits I have already made for our date if I decide to change. 

I am seriously thinking about changing the date because I just don't think I can keep up the hours I work right now much longer. 

I have epilepsy and I have to be careful. 

 

Posted on June 13, 2014 at 3:03 pm
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Canooknic
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 There's no point in making yourself ill for what is basically just a day & a party!! With everything that has gone on in your world recently I'm amazed that you're still standing! ;)

You should be enjoying the planning and the lead up to your day, not working crazy hours and getting exhausted.

Call around your vendors and see if they are willing to change your date and then make the decision

Posted on June 13, 2014 at 3:16 pm
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 I agree with Canooknic, and if you're making your life miserable and compromising your health you might end up having to change the date after all this work anyway!  I hope that your whole life is beautiful; leading up to, including, and after your wedding day.  And I'm sure whatever decision you make you will have the support of your fiance. 

Posted on June 16, 2014 at 6:56 am
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 Agreed ladies.  Nothing is worth your health.  Some of your vendors may be willing to work with you in regards to a date change.

I had to change the date of my wedding as well.  I was supposed to get married on September 21st of last year and my daughter was due on September 24th with a high risk pregancy so I decided to move the day and year.

In retrospect it was the best thing for everyone especially since she gave birth a month early.  

Don't be afraid to change it if you find yourself scrambling for everything including your sanity.

Posted on June 16, 2014 at 1:01 pm

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