My BM slept with my GM (LONG!!!)
Ok so I know I got married nearly 7 months ago but I still want to vent about this
DH's brother was a GM and one of my friends a BM. Now BM is a devout Christian and we had issues with Bm dress being appropriate and when she could come help with dress shopping and she refused to come to my Hen's night because she didn't want to put herself in that environment (we went pole dancing and clubbing) and while I was upset I understood. 4 weeks before the wedding we were off to have hair trials. I get a message from her saying she couldn't come. No expanation.
the next day i find out she has been sleeping with Dh's brother for over 6 months, sneaking outy of home to meet him, then sneaking into our house to have sex in our spare bed! For these 6 months I had suspicions they were together but not together and knew they were using our house (which I put a stop to as soon as I found out) But I never thought they were having sex!!! She was only 17 at this time as well.
So all in all it turned into a big mess. He was kicked out of the church, she wouldn't speak to him and we had to swap around the BP order so they weren't together anymore after we'd swapped it earlier to make sure they were together.. Her family got p'ed off with DH's cause her family thought Dh's family knew they were sleeping together. Her family almost didn't come to the wedding and the only reason she continued to be a bridesmaid was coz her family would "protect" her from GM!!!!
Moral of this story is don't pick your bridesmaids over 12 months befpre the wedding!
Sorry just needed to vent.. still so annoyed.