my dress is in

so my dress has been in for a week now and I keep procrastinating to go get fitted.  Why am I scared of my dress?  Just thinking about it makes me sick.  I feel like I'm not ready to meet my dress~ I want to lose more weight and I'm way behind on my goal weight for the week.  I'm scared I'll try it on and feel like a cow and hate my dress!  Is that weird?

Posted on August 14, 2008 at 9:27 am
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AMiller
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Yes... lol! Well... No, not really I was scared to go pick up mine after it was fitted because I was afraid I would get upset if it wasn't perfect.

Posted on August 14, 2008 at 9:28 am
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I am with you Just! I just now took mine to get the bust taken in and cups added yesterday! I've had my dress for 5 months sitting in my closet. i got scared bc I bought it a size too big for length and width in the waist...and now it fits like the smaller size did :(


I'm just planning on starving myself 2 weeks prior to the wedding lol JK!

Posted on August 14, 2008 at 9:32 am
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oh oh can you go and take pic, please !! since that was going to be the dress i was going to get I want to see it on. I now have decided to go with another dress but i would love to see how it looks. Go fit it today im sure you will love it :-)

Posted on August 14, 2008 at 11:44 am
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haha I did the same thing- remember??? JUST GO!!!  You need to get going on this- your wedding is right around the corner...  :)

Posted on August 14, 2008 at 12:01 pm
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Don't be scared. I know you will look beautiful in it. So get your butt in gear and go get it...lol

Posted on August 14, 2008 at 12:03 pm
JustAnothrBridezilla
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Mari~ I will go this weekend I have no choice so I'll bring my camera and take pix and post them for you.  I still love the dress I'm just self conscious about my weight b/c I've never been so heavy and I'm behind on my weight goal these last 2 weeks b/c of everything going on I've had no time to exercise.  I fell in love with my dress and then after I bought it my MOH sent me pix of me at the store in the dress and I cried for 2 weeks b/c I felt I looked so fat in it.  I'm still really in love with my dress I just want to look good in it.  So We'll see I know the camera adds 10 pounds so that didn't help and the dress was a size 13 and was clipped in the back and not fitted so I think it will be ok when I try my dress on...but I've been tainted with those bad photos.

Posted on August 14, 2008 at 12:03 pm
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Oh dont be scared!! Even if it is TERRIBLE, it has to look good on you! It is your WEDDING I am sure you will be so happy about everything. And no, you will not look like a cow.

Posted on August 14, 2008 at 1:24 pm
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I'm in the same boat! My dress is on order and I am terrified of it because the pictures my MOH took make me look like I stuffed pillows all over my body (I was clipped in too. And I cried too.) If you are anything like me, you probably just have an insanely over-critical eye on yourself. I have been reassured, though, that everything will be fine. And you should be too. You will be beautiful in it, and it will all work out. We just see things about ourself that no one would ever notice.


My sister said she also went through the same exact thing, tainted photos and all. She told me that after all of it, she realized how crazy it was and that when she saw her professional photos she felt silly for wasting all that time worrying. So go easy on yourself. And have a wonderful day with your beautiful dress!


 

Posted on August 14, 2008 at 1:39 pm
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omg seriously you look great from the recent engagement pictures you posted. yay ! Im excited to see you ! I also felt the same way when I had start shopping for a dress I kept putting it off but I just decided to go for it. 

Posted on August 14, 2008 at 1:46 pm
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dont be scared of your dress! although iam! lol it is really stupid i know!!! but you will look beautiful!


i tried my dress on and had fittings done in summer i weighed 58 kg! it is now wimnter 11 weeks to my big day and i weigh 62kg so i feel very sad...


my dress still fits i just feel like a big frumpy fat cow lol it's not really funny i hate it...


i used to only weigh 49kg before i had my son & trust me baby weight is way hard to loose... i will be stoked if i can get my weight down to 55kg i now start now!!!

Posted on August 14, 2008 at 2:03 pm
JustAnothrBridezilla
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thanks girls for all your kind words and encouragement.  I guess this weekend Dina is just going to have to face her dress....ahhhh  

Posted on August 14, 2008 at 2:23 pm

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