Hey :) so I'm new here, and still a virgin. My FH and I are saving ourselves for our wedding night (so yeah, hes a virgin too). Guess like most brides, I'm pretty nervous for the big night. Its not really that I'm afraid of the pain (I've heard with foreplay its not so bad), I just want to be sexy instead of self-conscious and amateurish. As a newbie, I dont really know what I should be doing during the act and the old peice of advice "close your eyes and think of england" just doesnt seem very useful, lol. I want our wedding night to be a night to remember so I guess my question is, what advice would you ladies give me for making my wedding night sexily fantastic?