New to PW. Need some advise
Hello everyone, I have been engaged for almost three weeks and some "planning" has been started. My Fiancee didn't want to pick a best man at first. He finally decided and picked two of his friends. Now i'm the one in the dilemma and need some advise. I have picked three of my friends. The reason that i'm throwing in a third one, is one is moved out of state and if she does make it which i hope she does. I want her to be in my wedding. The problem that i'm having is I don't know which one to pick as my maid of honor. Do i REALLY have to have one? Can i just have three bridesmaids? So heres the deal....One of them (who we will call A) i went to school with growing up. We became really close, i was her maid of honor when she got married right out of high school. I did not throw her a party or anything because i was only 18 at that time and i didn't even really know what my duties were. After she got married we still seemed to be close even though we live about an hour and half away from each other. Ever since i had my daughter we have became very distant. Hardly talk, maybe once a week if that. The second girl (who we will call B), is a friend that i have gotten close to in the last year or so. I wouldn't say we are good friends just friends. She lives a half mile from me and we seem to be doing more stuff together, which is nice. The third girl (who we will call C) is the out of state girl. The last 3 years before she recently moved out of state, we were really close. We talked about everything, texted everyday, saw each other every weekend. She just makes everyone smile and is a great all around a great person.
I know my wedding is not going to be the $20,000 wedding and everything is not going to be traditional. For instance my daughter is going to be our flowergirl and ring bear. I don't want to hurt anybodys feeling and i feel that i will if i have to choose somebody. Please help and let me know your thoughts. Thanks.