Newly engaged with a problem already!
Hello all! I am a newby as I just got engaged last week (after 8 long years together and the recent birth of our first child!). We have not chosen a date yet, let alone any details, really just enjoying the engagment. BUT, I'm getting antsy, and am ready to get rolling.
I have a dilemma though and hoping for some advice. I have my moh and maids in mind, however I have a problem that I am not sure there is any fix to. I want to ask one of my sisters-in-law (my brother's wife) that I am really close to (I was a maid in her wedding) and one of my future SIL (my FI's sister) that I am also very close with. PROBLEM: My other brother's wife and my FI's other sister I am not very close with but feel I can't ask the other SIL's without asking them as well. This is terrible but, my brothers wife that I don't want to ask, I was her MOH in her wedding a few years ago. She has NO family and really had NO friends. We had only met ONCE and so when she asked me of course I said yes. They live far from me and we have only been together in the same place maybe 5 whole days of our lives! And my FI's other sister, we are just not that close either.
So tell me, would I be the worst person in the world to not ask them? I really want my wedding party to be people who are super special to me, not because of feeling bad. Is there anything that I could ask them to be to be a part of it all without being a super insult?
I'm totally at a loss here! HELP!! Thanks all! I'm excited to join the project wedding world!