No Bridesmaid duty for me
So I posted a while back about my future sister in law's wedding:
The general response was that I should get over it and shouldn't expect to be a part of her wedding. that just because I asked her to be in mine she's not obligated to ask me to be in hers. But that's not why I want to be in her wedding. I want to be involved because she is my fiance's ONLY sister. I will become her ONLY sister. I just don't understand.
But I'm still upset about. Months later she and I have gotten super close. My dad is going to cater their reception, she wants me to help her plan, and she's super excited about getting me as a sister and I'm excited too!
So get this! this weekend her Fiance asked my Fiance to be a groomsman!!!!! So her brother (my fiance) gets to be in the wedding. Now I feel completely left out!
does anybody understand where I'm coming from? I mean I LOVE weddings, I love being apart of someones most important day and I would be so honored to a party of my sister in law's wedding. But I guess I won't. Only my fiance....
*sigh* I'm super emotional right now due to the coming arrival of Aunt Flo and MY WEDDING in 2 weeks...