No MOH

Long story.... many years, long story. But I finally pulled the cord on a friendship and she happened to be my MOH. What now? Do I ask one of my other girls to step up? which I do not know how I feel about that, if it would seem like I'm second picking or if it would be an honor to another girl. or do I just ask them all to step up and help me, and I pretty much take on the role of MOH. I will say the Mr. and my mom have stepped up in just the couple of days since this MOH stepped down.... HELP!! anything will help
Posted on January 15, 2014 at 11:12 am
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jmbuss9
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You don't have to have a MOH. And really, all the BM's should be helping you with one thing or another. Not just the MOH. I would ask them to all help when they can with things you request them to help you with.

Shouldn't be a problem since they all agreed to be BM's,

Posted on January 15, 2014 at 11:21 am
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If you feel close to one of your bridesmaids I would ask one of them to step up, but that's just me. 

I had one MOH in the beginning and she wasn't doing anything, always late on deadlines...just seemed like she was not sharing in the same vision for my day as my other bridesmaids were.  So I asked one of my BM to be my second MOH.  Needless to say she said of course!  I should have asked her from the beginning but did not want to seem insensitive because she had a recent divorce.  She was all in and honestly made my wedding festivities that much better, without her I wouldn't have been happy.

I say ask if you feel close and comfortable to one of your bridesmaids.

Posted on January 15, 2014 at 11:23 am
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Thanks ladies, this helps!!
Posted on January 15, 2014 at 1:31 pm
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 i know i am coming into this late, but i agree with the ladies.  a moh isnt necessary.  if you can sit down with the bridesmaids and let them know what has happened and ask them to help maybe more that you had been needing in the past.  they can share the duties and if you need an extra set of eyes and ears a meeting one of them should be able to come.  i know that when my friend got married she set up a private group on facebook so she could talk wedding stuff in a medium that everyone got quickly, but not be loading her profile with all the details.  for this matter you could have several of these one for everyone in the wedding party and one for just the people that are helping with the planning.

Posted on January 15, 2014 at 11:04 pm
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good Idea on the facebook group!! I have been texting and its a little difficult!! Thank you!!
Posted on January 16, 2014 at 9:47 am
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 It's definitely up to you! A MOH is not necessary :) At the end of the day, it's just a title, and most people are helping out a lot anyways

Posted on January 16, 2014 at 11:13 am

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