Not being careful
Dh and I have decided that we're not going to do anything to prevent pregnancy. I don't think that we'll be able to get pregnant unless I sart clomid which I don't plan on doing right away but I figured since dh would like to try to let it be a surprise we'd try it without anything but orselves at first and see what happens. Even though we're not totally financially ready for a kid I think we're more emotionally ready than we've ever been and we do have good steady jobs which is more than we can ask for. If we wait to be completely financially read we'll be waiting for years which we DON'T want to do. So ladies we'll see what happens.