Not using a condom on wedding night...

FI and I have been together for over 9 years...so obviously there won't be any truly 'new' experiences on our wedding night lol.


We DO NOT want kids, so I've always been on BC and we've always used a condom...but he wants to not use one for the wedding night.


I'm terrified, I don't want any chance of getting pregnant! I am on the Nuva-Ring, which seems to work great for me but I don't always follow the schedule to a T...sometimes I take it out a day or two late or put it back in late.


So...how would you ladies feel about this? Do you think it would be okay for one night? I guess I'm not really sure what my other options are, either wear one or don't.

Posted on August 29, 2011 at 1:59 am
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Your situation is the exact same as mine - we DO NOT want kids either. Before we got married I was on Nuva Ring AND we used condoms. Cuz, like you, we weren't taking any chances!


I feel that since we got married though, it was time to "graduate" to no condoms ever again. We've been married for over a year with just Nuva Ring and no babies yet (KNOCK ON WOOD!!!). I think you will be perfectly fine! BC is made so you don't have to use condoms to prevent pregnancy anyway :)

Posted on August 29, 2011 at 5:05 am
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I think you should be OK, I have been off and on BC for years and I never quite follow the rules either and we are baby free!! Would maybe a spermicidal lube maybe make things better or ease your mind?

Posted on August 29, 2011 at 2:17 pm
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No idea how it would be with nuva ring, but I'm on the pill and I'm not very good about taking it on time. And I don't just mean a couple hours late here and there... I'm supposed to be on "Tuesday" but I'm still on "Thursday" from last week. :/ (I'm so responsible)


We don't use condoms and we're still baby free! And will hopefully stay that way for a looong time. Like, eternity.

Posted on August 30, 2011 at 1:24 am
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We never use condoms...haven't for over two years, (I'm super strict about my pill though) and we're still baby free!!

Posted on August 30, 2011 at 5:26 am
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Thank you! That eases my mind a bit...now where would I go about purchasing spermacidal lube? I usually go to Wal-Mart lol.

Posted on August 30, 2011 at 6:58 am
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You can find it anywhere.

Posted on August 30, 2011 at 7:19 am
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I have an IUD we arent married yet and we don't use condoms.

Posted on August 30, 2011 at 2:47 pm
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I forgot to add that my good friend just recently announced she is pregnant...she uses NuvaRing. Freak accidents happen right??

Posted on August 31, 2011 at 6:59 am
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Unfortunately, they do! No birth control is 100% - so there's always gonna be those couple that make it through. Stop worrying and enjoy your wedding night :)

Posted on September 1, 2011 at 4:34 pm
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im on birth control an we never use condoms, no babies yet.an i have forgotten to take pills too,


but if your truly never gonna have kids have you thought of more permnant solutions

Posted on September 8, 2011 at 11:57 am
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I got pregnant while I was on the depo shot, no BC is 100% guaranteed! BUT! I've been on the pill since I was 15 and no babies....so I think we're okay. It's just the depo that has been known to have it's fair share of issues.

Posted on September 12, 2011 at 4:20 pm
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I never have fi wear a condom. I'm on BC and we've been together for a long time. Only time we use one is when I mess up the pill accidentally for some reason.
Posted on October 6, 2011 at 3:09 pm

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