NWR: I'm devastated... WHY???? Please pray!
Dear ladies! I know this may not be the group to post such things, but I didn't want to post in the main forum, and this is the group I'm most active and I just need to talk about it. And I need comfort.
I'm devastated and there are just NO WORDS to say how I feel, how our family feels. Happiness and sadness are so close sometimes. Yesterday evening we were celebrating our LOs first birthday, I had prepared everything and my MIL and one of my best friends arrived at 5.30 pm. DH was at home too. Then I got a call from my sister, she is the goodmother of Fabrice and I thought she was calling to congratulate. But she startet crying right away and said that she was so sorry because it was Fabrice's birthday, but she has to tell me something horrible happenend. She told me to sit down and I simply couldn't believe what she said: her 2 year old son has gone.. Elio died Sunday evening at the hospital. How can this be? Why a 2 year old? WHY? He had health issues right from the beginning on when he was born (intestinal problems) and had surgeries. But all seemed good. The only thing is that he often had stomach flue (with diarrhea and sickness), it was his weak point. And once again on Sunday she went to the emergency cause he suddenly got weak and was throwing up. He then had a complete circulatory collaps and they couldn't do anything anymore.
Why do such things happend? WHY? We are devastated and I don't know what to do. I feel so helpless.
Please pray for Elio and for our family!