NWR - Just need to vent

I am sooo sick of everytime things seem to be going good for us everything goes to shit. We were both working, saving some money for the wedding next summer and planning to find a new apartment after the lease on our crappy apartment is up. Then my aunt died, and my other aunt has cancer. My boss called me last week AT HOME AT 9PM to tell me I was fired, but she said she would write it as a layoff for ei purposes to help me out (the reason she gave was very vague and it was the first time she expressed an issue with my performance, i work at a daycare) Then when the secretary called me yesterday she said she would have to write it as a dismissal. I already have a previous EI claim open and when I tried to file a report it asked if i stopped working and when I stated yes I had to indicate if was layoff and when I stated no it told me to call. I've been on hold for 25 minutes now waiting and odds are they are either A) not going to continue my claim or B) stop my claim for 4-6 weeks to make another decision and either way we cannot support ourselves and our child on one income.  To top that off I had an interview at another daycare last week and they still have not got back to me and i;ve called numerous times and noone ever answers the phone. I just got through and it is B.... they're stopping any payments and I have to submit a form and will not recieve any money until a decision is made and the early date is april 29, 2013.  FFS

Posted on April 5, 2013 at 4:30 am
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leni8
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Ow this is terrible! I am so so sorry to hear that.


I don’t understand how people can sleep at night after firing someone with no obvious reason.


I am sending you positive thoughts to have a positive reply on that job.


((HUGS))

Posted on April 5, 2013 at 4:49 am
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I'm very sorry to hear this. It sounds like you are on top of things, as hard as they may be. Keep your head up, it will eventually work out even though it may not seem like that now. It would seem that was not the job for you and there is a better one out there!

Posted on April 5, 2013 at 4:54 am
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Im so sorry to hear that. Sending you lots of [hugs] your way!

Posted on April 5, 2013 at 5:24 am
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Awww! So sorry to hear this! Always know that when one door closes another one will open! Sending you positive vibes and many virtual hugs! 

Posted on April 5, 2013 at 5:50 am
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Can you start your own childcare? What about being a nanny? Sometimes things happen for a reason. It isjust not always clear at the time. I have my fingers crossed that things will work out.

Posted on April 6, 2013 at 4:13 am

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