NWR - She's a home wrecker

I just caught a segment on Bethenny about a website called 'shesahomewrecker.com' and I'm gobsmacked!

This website is where wives can shame the women that their husband cheat with.

One of the guests is blaming 'the other woman' for trying to steal her future but has forgiven her husband because he's 'a good man'.

Am I crazy? Isn't it their husband that has broken the relationship??

Whats your opinion? (Please play nice ladies xx)

Posted on December 4, 2013 at 3:30 pm
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MichelleMS4
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 Oh geez, I can't stand when the person in the relationship is forgiven and the stranger is called the horrible person.

The stranger had no loyalty to you or the relationship, its the one in the relationship who is at most fault - for breaking that trust.

Can't stand when I hear about that kind of stuff!

Posted on December 4, 2013 at 3:54 pm
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Oh sheesh. I think in that kind of awful situation both people are adults and made the choice to do whatever. If a couple can overcome and heal that kind of thing, more power to them, but I don't think that happens in a healty way if the man never admits fault. (Or the woman, whoever the offender in the couple was).  Plus, I 'm guessing that anyone who jumps on a site like shesahomwrecker.com are not probably going to come to a grown-up reconcilliation.

But...also consider the source. Wasn't Bethenny a "Real" Housewife? I doubt there is a lot of high-level thinking on that show lol!

Posted on December 4, 2013 at 4:27 pm
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 I have no idea who she is! I was flicking through channels before I did the school run and couldn't believe these crazy people all getting angry at each other! I've never seen the show before so I don't know anything about her....I'm off to Google!!

Posted on December 4, 2013 at 5:24 pm
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I've never even heard of these websites...I can't judge anyone for getting on there but I personally would not take the time to give some random the attention or energy to get on a website just to humiliate her.  I would have nothing to do either one of them for engaging in somethiing so ridiculous and disrespectful.  I can't stand it either when the cheater is always to blame and the husband/wife gets the free pass.  Not going to happen in this household lol.

Posted on December 4, 2013 at 5:43 pm
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 Ugh!!! Can't stand things like that! 

but i def believe both parties are at fault because if I was single and being hit on by a married man there's no way in hell I'd take him up on it. So a woman that knowingly does that is also looking for trouble. I believe couples can work through it, but the man has to take full responsibility and be willing to get help.

i used man and woman, but it can go either way! 

Posted on December 5, 2013 at 12:07 pm
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 That's the thing Elise, one woman didn't know the guy was married and the other one was seeing a man who was waiting for his divorce to be finalised and both of them have been trashed on this website.

I just think there must be a better way to deal with the situation that slapping photos and personal details all over the Internet 

Posted on December 5, 2013 at 2:16 pm
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This stuff honestly infuriates me. Like others said, the majority of these are married men and single woman. And the woman is being put out to the slaughter. Some don’t know that the person was married. It’s affecting peoples lives, there jobs, their KIDS!!!

Its awful.

Personally if my husband cheated on me I would be devastated but my pain (and anger) would be limited to him, friends and family. I wouldn’t lower myself to post things on a website. To be honest it’s pathetic. I have a hard time feeling sorry for any of them.  

Posted on December 5, 2013 at 2:51 pm
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And like was just mentioned A LOT of them are people that have been separated for a long time and waiting for the divorce to be finalized…that never cheated and were not in any form of a relationship while the marriage was intact.  I’m not sure about the States but in Quebec you have to be separated(living in separate addresses) for a minimum of one year before you can process a divorce and then it can take up to a year for a court date. Are people supposed to sit around for 2 years after a break down of a relationship???  Once its over it is over…and I don’t mean in a Rachel/Ross “we were on a break” kind of way.

 

It’s angry and hurt soon to be ex wives that are mad that their ex has moved on. The past is the past.

 

Just to be clear...im SO not standing up for cheaters, or home wreckers, or mistresses.... some of the "cheaters" are real actual cheaters sand horrible people.....but I dont think dirty laudry should be aired to the world.   

Posted on December 5, 2013 at 2:55 pm

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