Well why are you uncomfortable with it?
Yeah, it kinda freaks me out too. I am like ummmmm. pee comes out of there, and I NEVER let him unless I am straight out of the shower, even then it isn't often. I think twice in a whole year.
Im not a big fan either. Chris tried to all the time. Mines def a weight issue though. And im always afraid about smell/taste, etc
Ease your way into it if you wanna try it. Get him to do it when you first come out of the shower/bath so you are less self concious. You may find that you really love it, and if you don't then at least you will know. Also, I purchased a Kama Sutra kit that has raspberry flavored honey dust in it, I put that down there sometimes when I want him to pay a visit down town, and he loves the taste of it :)
OOOH I hope you get over being uncomfortable, because if he figures out how to do it well, you'll NEVER want him to stop! I think there's a few others on here who would agree with me. :D
I love it. i can't get enough of it :)
OMG, I can't get there without it. But I have to tell you that I am very modest and had issues with it for years, which I think is why I never had an orgasm until I was 27-28. But now, OMG, I push him down there, but I still have a self-conscious side that needs to shower first!
One of my exes was an a$$ who gave me a complex about it so I was hesitant when me and FH started going out. But he took charge and didn't take no for an answer and I'm so glad. Because now I LOOOOOOOOOVE it!
I totally agree with trying it straight out of the shower ....I can't let him down there If I'm not feeling 'fresh"
I love having that done but I HATE when he asks me to be on top b/c of my weight...
I like it, but I need to make sure I am clean down there.
I cant get enough of it! try the shower thing and work from there! once you have an orgasm that way I find I need to do it every time lol
@ Niecy...I have that same issue if my girl is not *FRESH* he ain't getting near her!
But I love it..but honestly my FI REALLY LOVES IT!! I mean I started to think he had an issue because I swear that's all he wants to do is bury his face in between my legs and stay there FOREVER....I literally have to pull him away at times. He's a freak!!! HAHAHA
omg...just my favorite thing ever! we have baby wipes next to the bed to "freshen up" when the mood strikes...i love it when i'm in a skirt...it just seems so naughty...mmmmmm
I can understand your issues, as sometimes I am uncomfortable if I'm not freshly waxed or haven't taken a shower. However - I couldn't go without it! It is THE BEST! When FI and I first got together he hadn't really done it much cause it was too intimate to do to the other girls he had been with - and at first it was awkward. But now? Yowza! We are both addicted!
I'm new to the group and it's funny how i stumbled onto this thread!! What a great way to start...
I totally understand what you mean about feeling funny... I mean someone's face is DOWN THERE!! With my ex's i never liked it and I never got off on doing it... BUT! MY FI is the first one who did it RIGHT! haha! SOOO yeh, I pretty much love it now! Can't go without it...
Everyone pretty much said all the right advice, easy into it, take a shower, maybe maintain down. Or bring food(ex. whip cream, honey, chocolate syrup) with you it's a great way to explore each other's body. Hope that helps! =]
Glad to know I'm not the only one...Not that I'm uncomfortable, there's just other things I'd rather he be doing, lol. DH thinks I'm the only woman in the world that doesn't really care about it, lol
FI Loves it. I enjoy it. For me it is just about lying back and enjoying the sensations. I don't expect to get off from it (although other girls can). It is very relaxing.