OMG Do Black People

know what R.S.V.P. means? Like seriously.  If it says R.S.V.P. by this date whats so hard with people doing that? My bff is throwing me a wonderful bridal shower at this country club where they require you to have a head count by a certain date.  All I need to know if you are coming or not! What's so hard with people calling and saying "Hi Ashley, I'm coming." I called and asked them did they R.S.V.P. and I was told it's my fault! OMG! I'm about to jump off the curb!! I'm too scary to jump off the bridge. LOL. Thanks for listin PW!!!

Posted on April 5, 2010 at 7:51 am
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Haha, I feel ya..if its something other than a wedding I think the RSVP is overlooked..I honestly didnt even know what it was til i was in my 20's, even when there was a number or email listed, i just looked right over it..dont have an answer as to why its not taken seriosuly..

Posted on April 5, 2010 at 8:01 am
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I was wondering the same thing...lol! Why do WE have such a problem with RSVP'ing?? LOL :) I already know that my coordinator is going to have to do TONS of followup calls....tsk...tsk....

Posted on April 5, 2010 at 8:07 am
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Oh my family don't RSVP for weddings either.  How am I suppose to keep up with everyone invited? *sigh* People are getting on my nerves!!!

Posted on April 5, 2010 at 8:08 am
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I think I need to do an etiquette class after Church or something.  Because this is sooo aggravating!

Posted on April 5, 2010 at 8:09 am
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You know we cant do right ..LOL  i got fed up with my guests. A easy problem to fix. Escort cards and if you dont see your name that means you dont know how to follow directions so there will be no seat for you..

Posted on April 5, 2010 at 8:32 am
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We have a problem doing just about everything. You know that if we don't know what it is or means we ain't doing it! I'm putting a firm RSVP date on everything... and don't show up with randoms either because they didn't get the invite you did!


I'm sorry June19th!

Posted on April 5, 2010 at 8:40 am
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Lol@ ashven.


I havent sent invites out yet, but now ya'll scaring me, I'm including stamps on my RSVP, now if i have to call you and see if you coming, and you have sat up and wasted my .44 cents...I'm gone have a problem!!!

Posted on April 5, 2010 at 8:48 am
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lol!!! I know that is what I am going through as well. However mine is the wedding RSVP if I get another FB message telling me they are going ugh!!! I tell people I worked hard for the 44 cent stamp so the least they can do is retrun it. UGH!!! Sorry I had to vent

Posted on April 5, 2010 at 8:53 am
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HAHAHAHAHA @ashven that is how I feel right about now.  I just added the last person.  If someone show up without rsvp'ing I hope they know someone that is already there because they will have to lap up!!!


lcornish1 plan on having someone call a couple days before the event because sometimes we are a little forgetful :)


 

Posted on April 5, 2010 at 9:00 am
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@inunli LOL! "Honey its 2010 people rsvp via text messaging, FB and twitter!!!" Quote from my Puerto Rican friend...

Posted on April 5, 2010 at 9:03 am
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LOL @ June192010bride !! I am so out of the loop I should have skipped invites and posted my wedding info via facebook. LOL

Posted on April 5, 2010 at 9:39 am
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Man, I feel you on that!!

Posted on April 5, 2010 at 10:55 am
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I did find that "others" have the rsvp problem too.   A lot of my rsvps were verbal and last minute, but it was OK, cause mine was in a backyard LOLOL

Posted on April 5, 2010 at 11:04 am
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@ june192010, so you are saying, not only do I have to call you because you havent mailed back your RSVP, I have to call you again to remind you about the wedding????!!


Now, thats crazy!! " We" as well as "others" have gots to do better!!! lol


I agree with inunli!!..Should have went FB all the way!

Posted on April 5, 2010 at 11:19 am
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OH, OH, OH, OH, OH!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Some days you just HAVE to open your mouth and speak your mind! Is it a Black folks tick you off day or something!! I've had nothing but RSVP drama today from my people!!! Deadline is 3/1/10. Insert clearly states limit guest to one. No kids. So WHY would you try to add your GRANDDAUGHTER on 3/30/10??!!!!! And why would another RSVP and not put their name on it? I've had about 7 of those. Since the final count needs to be turned in by Friday, we decided to have the "YES" RSVP's contacted to verify they're still coming. Why would you get an attitude with the person who called because YOU didn't include your own self when RSVP the total # of guests attending?? The people that are giving me trouble..........they're sitting at "Table 17". It's far away from the action. Mean I know, but when folks are trying to get over on you and you're OUT of money and they still don't care? Sorry Charlie. I paid for 200. #201 is paying for themselves and sitting at........Table 17.

Posted on April 5, 2010 at 2:33 pm
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omg i totally know how you feel!!!

Posted on April 5, 2010 at 3:19 pm
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LOL Thanks Ladies for the vent!! Hahahahaha!!! Glad to know I am not alone : )


@CaliGirlINLV People are a trip.  They deserve to be at table 17!!!

Posted on April 5, 2010 at 4:01 pm
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Table # 17, that is great. I'm pretty sure I will have bump this post when it comes time for my RSVP's......

Posted on April 5, 2010 at 4:53 pm
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Should I be scared the next time I attend a wedding and have to sit at table#17? lol

Posted on April 5, 2010 at 5:10 pm
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I know right.  I will then have to be the loud one and tell them we are all sitting at the "reject" table......... LOL!

Posted on April 5, 2010 at 5:46 pm
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