Only been with him...

So I've only been with my husband. We were together 8 years before we got married. I sometimes wonder what it would be like with someone else. Is that bad?

Posted on January 29, 2010 at 2:08 am
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Nope, I think its completely natural to wonder... as long as you dont ACT on it, I think you are just fine :)

Posted on January 29, 2010 at 2:08 am
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I think that's normal.  Acting on it would be a very bad idea though. ;)  I understand where you are coming from though because I married my first (my ex).  FWIW, our divorce was not related to him being my first, it was more related to my not being his only.

Posted on January 29, 2010 at 3:13 am
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completely natural but like the ladies said don't act. That's why I haven't acted on Gerard Butler or Brad Pitt ;)

Posted on January 29, 2010 at 3:58 am
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Natural

Posted on January 29, 2010 at 4:25 am
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Aboslutely natural.  Fantasies are harmless as long as they stay in your head :)

Posted on January 29, 2010 at 10:23 am
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I have only been with my FI too. Sometimes I wonder what it would be like but he is great in bed and I wouldn't have it any other way!

Posted on January 29, 2010 at 2:49 pm
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I agree with e.christensen!

Posted on January 29, 2010 at 3:14 pm
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I would never act on it. Thanks ladies!

Posted on February 1, 2010 at 11:28 pm
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That's totally normal and not wrong at all.


 

Posted on February 8, 2010 at 1:36 pm
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I have only been with my FI and hes only been with me, we have been together nearly 8 years....I have wondered what it would be like and i'm sure he has too, its totally natural.  plus we have eachother trained to what we like in bed so i dont think it could get much better than what we already have together, it took alot of practice but its mindblowing now so were good.

Posted on February 9, 2010 at 2:42 pm
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lol great answer angle. could'nt have said it better myself! :)

Posted on February 9, 2010 at 2:43 pm
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See, my FI is the 4th, but I really only condsider him my first, because 2 of them were drunken one night stands and my ex was only a one minute man. LOL.  I can't help but to feel jelous or sad(I can't really describe the feeling) because FI has been with many people before me and he has also done a lot more sexually then i have.  He is 9 years older then me though.  I just sometimes wish that I had more experience.  I know that he loves me, but I sometimes can't help but to wonder how I measure up to his past.

Posted on February 19, 2010 at 4:43 am
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very natural if both of you are open mind.

Posted on February 19, 2010 at 11:24 am
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That is absolutely normal to think about!! Of course, dont' act on it!

Posted on February 19, 2010 at 11:55 am

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