opinions needed please on trashing the dress

I plan to trash mine after but my mom thinks its completely wrong destroying a beautiful dress but its mine & i'm paying for it & I want to have it ruined along with my hubbys in his suit too. We both looked at eachother & made the agreement & laughed. We felt its a good sign of commitment besides having some wacky photos taken & both want to look as good as we do on the wedding day. I really dont want to fall out with her & beginning to wish I'd never mentioned it to her. Do you think shes right to call me a spoilt brat & selfish?


By the way this is what we plan to do in a nice location with before,during & after photos I cant wait & I think its going to be so much fun & crazy :)  I'm going to be sitting on a couple of black forest gateaus, have wedding cake thrown at me, have chocolate & cream poured over my head, down my dress & put my feet in a black forest gateau & have icing sugar sprinkled over me lol. Then we are having blue paint poured on us & confetti & even my ring will be ruined so my husband is buying us two so theres a spare for after.I will be wearing my actual dress & stuff & make up & hair done properly for it. I will upload photos of my beauty dress soon.  

Posted on March 9, 2011 at 8:50 pm
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Lynchpop
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Personally I think "NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO don't do it" LOL but hey, it's your dress and your paying for it so you should be able to do whatever you like!

Posted on March 9, 2011 at 9:26 pm
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Its yours and you can do what you want with it but if it was me, I'd go buy cheap one at a thrift store.

Posted on March 9, 2011 at 10:38 pm
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I agree Its your dress! You can do whatever you with it. I thought about doing a TTD but Im going to RTD instead..With fashion jewerly, props and fashion shoes in the city streets.


 


my inspiration


I agree Its your photo 2773245-1

Posted on March 9, 2011 at 10:51 pm
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I personally won't do it.  What about in water (it can get wet but dry cleaned after)?  My neice did awsome water pics.


I personally won t photo 2773843-1

Posted on March 10, 2011 at 3:41 am
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If you love it, do it!


I did a TTD and it didn't get ruined, just a bit dirty and the bottom was already ripped from the wedding. Someone stepped on my train!


Your ideas sound so fun, the paint will ruin it, but when will you ever wear it again, right? The point of it is to take artistic photos, THAT will immortalize the dress. I doubt, people will be coming to your house to see your dress hanging in the closet. Nope, they're going to look at the framed photos of you trashing it! 


Your mom is just being old fashioned. BOO to old fashioned! YES to rock n roll! Have fun!

Posted on March 10, 2011 at 4:31 am

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