Our wedding is in 8 days, and we still can't agree on a first dance song! STRESSING OUT.

Everything I like he thinks is cheesy, not slow enough, or in one case, creepy.


But he doesn't want anything "typical" and if he doesn't know the song, he assumes he doesn't like it.


Everything else he didn't want to be involoved in, and this is the one thing he wanted, and i was excited to have him involoved in SOMETHING but he's not cooperating!!!!!


I found one that I like, but I'm scared of getting shot down again....lol!


What do you guys think of this song...It's one of our favortie artists, but I've never heard it, and I've really fallen in love with it. 


http://youtu.be/bm1UtTmfTR8

Posted on March 14, 2013 at 6:32 am
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I never heard this song before, but I love the words! They are fantastic. The tempo is a little slow for me, but that's just me. 

Posted on March 14, 2013 at 6:50 am
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Yeah he want's something slow, because we don't dance lol! Slow dancing is fine, but yeah we have no rythym. lmao The words are what got me too.  I really love them...I'm just idk he doesn't like anything! Hahaha.

Posted on March 14, 2013 at 6:59 am
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Tell him to listen to the meaning of the words. Men can be something else! Lol. Does  he have any suggestions on songs since he has not been thrilled about yours?

Posted on March 14, 2013 at 7:02 am
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No. Lol.


He's been really weird about it.  He'll pick one, then he won't like it anymore or he'll find something wrong with it.


We were going to use "Then" by Brad Paisley, since that's been "our song" almost since we started dating, but a friend of ours used it for their wedding, and he refuses to use it now.  But it's the only one we never had an issue with.  I'm thinking of just calling our friend and being like "hey, you stole our song, we're taking it back" hahahaa but he's so against it.


I think he'll like this one, because he loves Bratley Gilbert, but he's unpredictable.  Our top two others are "My best friend" by Tim McGraw (his issue with this one is that it's to much of a "typical" wedding song, and "100 other people probably already used it" lol) And "Breathe You In" by Dierks Bentley, but there is a line in it that says "You can wear my skin" and he says that's creepy, even though it's meant (and I see it) in a sweet way lol.  Fingers crossed he likes this one though, because I've been listening ot it all morning and I really love it.

Posted on March 14, 2013 at 7:10 am
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I am cracking up at all his reasoning for not using other songs. I especially love the one that he thinks is creepy! I got my fingers and toes crossed that he likes it!

Posted on March 14, 2013 at 7:14 am
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what kind of music are you guys into?  

Posted on March 14, 2013 at 7:22 am
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He makes me laugh so much, but this is stressing me out! Hahahaha the creepy one is driving me nuts because it's my favorite song of the bunch, and relatively new, so no one really knows it yet.  But that's Albert for ya. hahaha.  I'm giving him till Monday to pick one, or else I'm picking on my own! We only have a week to figure this out! And less that that really, because my sister is coming fro CO on Tues, and I'm not having this discussion while she's here hahahaha.  And I'm DIYing my flowers, and ugh.  Can you tell I'm freaking out a little? Hahahah. It's coming so fast and I feel like I'm forgetting something, or that I did something wrong or something....I hope this is normal and I'm not just a control freak lol!

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Mostly country, and some alt rock/classic rock.

Posted on March 14, 2013 at 7:23 am
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Sorry, I missed the rest of the post lol.  How about "Me and You" by Kenny Chesney http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FDeGh2h3hDA


its slow enough and not creepy.

Posted on March 14, 2013 at 7:32 am
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Men can be so difficult, can't they? :)


I like that song you posted, and hopefully he will go for it. Here are a few more possibilities:


Thompson Square - If I Didn't Have You : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Tw6QudSlpc


Blaine Larsen - It Did (I had never heard this one, but I really like it! The final verse is about having a baby, so that may make it or break it for your song.) : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W7Tzu5aiqVQ


Billy Currington - Must Be Doing Something Right : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FbQfE2Oi6Wo


Keith Urban - Only You Can Love Me This Way : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pmuqORloBJw


 

Posted on March 14, 2013 at 7:38 am
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I LOVE the song you posted!! There are so many great country songs, it can be hard to find one, I'm sure! My sister used "Wanted" By Hunter Hays...LOVED THAT!!


and Laura--omg, DH and I discovered "It Did" right before our wedding. LOVE that song! It always makes DH cry [shhhh...he'd kill me for saying that ;)]

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I love the Kenny Chesney song, but he thought it was "cheesy" lol


He also HATES Hunter Hayes with a passion...I suggested that song and he nearly bit my head off lol!  He doesn't like the Billy Currington one because it has "sex references" lol and I like the Keith Urban one if he can't agree on anything else....He likes Keith Urban so maybe that could work.  It's not my first choice though.


 

Posted on March 14, 2013 at 8:05 am
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It's all normal. You are coming close to your day and you want everything to be perfect but just remember, you are marrying the love of your life, that is the ultimate goal and don't forget to breathe! On the day of, none of this will matter. If they put on Michael Jackson Thriller by mistake for your first song, the two of you will laugh and dance the night away! 

Posted on March 14, 2013 at 8:13 am
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I like the song you posted & think it would be great for a first dance - hope he goes for it.  (funny thing - we can't even remember what we danced to at our wedding, LOL!)  It will all work out & you will have a wonderful day!  Good Luck

Posted on March 14, 2013 at 9:02 am
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This song is really beautiful, one of my favorites...

George Strait - Carried Away
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ub0pQ5mf4a8

A couple of other good ones:

To make you feel my love, either by Adele or Garth Brooks depending on your tastes.
http://www.elyrics.net/read/g/garth-brooks-lyrics/to-make-you-feel-my-love-lyrics.html

Living our Love Song by Jason Michael Carroll
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9K5zGLPudqQ


Posted on March 14, 2013 at 9:44 am

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