People You Dread Telling?
We've had 2 different people we've dreading telling that we were pregnant.
The first, DH's sister, I now refuse to call her my sil. She said our engagement was too soon but I let her be in the wedding and be part of ceremony but last night was the final straw. W told her and she's like "oh, wow." And then the next statement out of her mouth was "so when are you having the second one?" Umm excuse me? If you're going to be a bitch and make a comment like that, at least have the balls to say what you're really thinking, "That happened too fast." I hate her. I officially hate her. If she thinks that she's going to be this negative bitch about it the whole thing and then the day the baby is born she's going to be the #1 Aunt she has a whole nother thing coming.
Our second, is a friend of ours who is having fertility issues, she had an eptopic (sp?) pregnancy and actually almost died. She'd email/IM me at work all the time about the new girl that she hated who was pregnant. Well I figured out of respect for her as a friend, I'd tell her and not have her hear it from someone else (maybe that was the wrong choice?) But anyway, I IM'ed her at work and it was about 5 mins later (which she normally takes like 5 secs) she's like "aw congrats" and then went offline at work. So now I feel so terrible, but it's like, how can you hate me for something that I have no control over, sort of. I can't help I'm a fertile myrtle and got pregnant that easy.
I hope that doesnt make me appear insensitive to you girls that have had issues with fertility. I can't even imagine how that must feel.