picking bridesmaids can be hard! HELP!
So, I have three older sisters. They are much older than me (I am 24 and My oldest sister is 39 ) It has always been assumed that my sisters would all be in my wedding since I was in all of theirs. I know this sounds pettie but its frustrating that all our groomsmen are going to be young and then my BM are all older I feel like they wont look right walking down the aisle together. Im not very close with my sister either and have friends Id rather have in the wedding but dont want a million bridesmaids. Ive talked to my mom about not having my sisters and she said it would hurt to many feelings, Im a people pleaser I cant stand people being upset with me.
So do I tell my sisters they cant be in the wedding and just try to get over my guilt or suck it up and just have them in the wedding? what would you do?
sorry this is so long! thanks in advance for any advicve!