Have you asked him? Do you care? Has he told you? Has he refused to tell you? If he did tell you, were you surprised/upset/relieved?
I've never asked. But through different conversations, I have a ballpark figure, and no, I don't care either way. He did ask me, and I told him, and frankly he was judgmental, but I'm used to that, and we both got over it.
We had that discussion a long time ago. I think that he exaggerated a little. Though in the end neither of us cares. The past is over...only the present matters.
i know we talked about it, i was a little up sett but at the end of the day the past is the past, & really it was not that bad... but compared to mine i was like wow, but he is 7yrs older then me too... its not an issue at all...
Nope, I don't know and don't want to know either. I have a feeling I would maybe get a little upset at first but like everyone is saying...the past is the past. So I really don't care to know.
He knows mine. I don't know his, but I do know it's a lot more than mine. He probably doesn't know his either...
ya- we had this convo early on just out of curiosity! Luckily neither of us has been too crazy lol
I think his was like 10 or soemthing??
We swapped number after we'd been together for quite a while... oddly we had the same number... I think he just copied mine to be honest... but neither of us really cares or have brought it up since that one conversation.
I don't want to know. I know of some of them but he has never came out and told me, and I have never asked. I don't want to know. If he tells me his, he might ask for mine and that is not something I am proud of. I was a hoe-bag when I was 20-21. I got a divorce and made some really bad mistakes. I am not that woman anymore, and don't like to admit to my past. I am grateful for it only because when I hit 30, I won't feel like I missed out on something if that makes sense.
Not that it was a deal breaker, but we had that convo early on. I think mine bothered him more than his bothering me.
I do. We are pretty open about it. He is in his teens with other partners and is 9 years my senior so.
Yes I do and he knows mine. We talked about it in the beginning of the relationship just so there was never that awkward "how do you know her/him?" if we ever ran into someone that either of us was with. It just depends on your situation for sure and how comfortable you both are with the conversation. I don't do well with information that isn't told to me up front so this worked for us and I was never concerned when we saw someone he dated because he was upfront with me from the beginning. But every one is different in their preferences. :)
He knows I was with one other person, and he hasn't said clearly, but I think he was with one other person like once. I haven;t asked him straight. I don't know if I will. I may some day.
We've never had 'that' conversation but we've had plenty of others that lead me to beleive I know his number. And he knows my number because he was my first...
I don't know FI's "number"...but honestly, he doesn't either. He tried to count once and it was in the high 20's
yup :) zero, same as me, and thank goodness, I know past is past, but I would be just a little wierded out, lol
BF asked me one night, and I was nervous to tell him because I KNEW it was going to be higher than his because he's kind of conservative. But I wasn't going to not say anything, and I'm not ashamed of it, so I told him. I was right, and I'm about twice his number, but it's cool. I'd have been fine never talking about it at all, but I'm ok knowing as well. I'm very good at remembering that the past is past and we're together now and that's what matters. It's even better because I can trust that his number will only go up by 1 as long as we're together, UNLIKE my ex-FI.
We've never had a formal discussion about it. He had asked me when drunk before we technically started dating, so he knows my number. I don't know his and that's more than fine with me! I have no desire to know and it really doesn't matter at the end of the day.
We met when we were 17 so needless to say we know each others numbers, and they aren't ridiculous. We are both each others second.
we know each others. i have more than him, and he was a little embarassed! lol